Boyfriends being weird

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My boyfriend isnt as nice as he used to me. he used to tell me he missed me every weeked. weve been together for almost 9 months, an shits been goin downhill. infact i think the last time he said he loves me was almost a week ago. i always start the conversation. i dont really want to tell him this because i feel like i complain a lot.
last time we did anything remoely sexual was... um.. 4 weeks ago. last time we made out.. 2 weeks ago. help. advice. iin?

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    That seems like the beginning of the end. I may be wrong

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  • ginz
    11 years ago

    target one of his best friends, get them into a real awkward 1on1 situation and pressure them into revealing what's going on in ur bf's mind

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    People show their true colours later in a relationship when they feel more comfortable. It's exhausting to be nice all the time. Unfortunately when you're special someones personality does start to show through, you have to decide if he's right for you or not.

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  • Samijo
    11 years ago

    Dump him! My boyfriend did the same thing to me, don't be made a fool of! Dump him before he hurts you. He's obviously an ass. I'm sorry but it sounds like he's just not that into you (anymore)

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  • 1232123212321
    11 years ago

    i dumped his ass. its all good.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    First thing, don't take advice from here. For some reason IIN users think people should break up at the drop of a hat. I dunno if it's because they all have immature high school relationships or they just want to sound "seasoned". Second, just ask him about it. That simple.

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    • Moonbow
      11 years ago

      No, it's because some of us have a little experience. When someone starts acting the way this person is describing, it's the beginning of the end and if this girl starts clinging to this guy and trying to "talk" about her "feelings" with him, he's just going to exit that much faster!

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        Because they are immature. I talk with my girlfriend all the time. Just because you hit some choppy seas doesn't mean you abandon ship. If you give up that easy, with out even a talk, you will never have a real relationship. Relationships have ups and down. Real relationships make it through.

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  • cutegalsly
    11 years ago

    u reminded me of me.thats what happened when our relationship was falling apart.i asked him what was wrong then he said nothing...i felt bad and let go,by stop texting him or talking to him.after one month he said that he needed a break and all kinds of excuses and that he wanted me back when i started hanging out with the guy he hated at school.i could see him die of jelousy when he saw us talking and laughing but i never cared it was his loss.try moving on with your life.maybe he needs a break.

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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    He's probably mad or something. Maybe you guys aren't really meant to be.

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  • DanishGirl
    11 years ago

    talk with him. Who cares if you feel like your complaining too much. Obviously this is bothering you and will continue to unless you get the issue resolved. If it doesn't go well move on. Their is someone out there who will not treat you like this. But give him the benefit of the doubt so to speak first. Their might be some other issue he might be going through that is weighing on him that he is dealing with and if that's the case than try to be there for him.

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  • Moonbow
    11 years ago

    He's just trying to build up to dumping you and if you're smart, you'll dump him first. If you will dump him before he has a chance to dump you, there's a chance you may rekindle his interest. If you keep telling him you love him and clinging to him, you're just going to get hurt.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    If you can't get through this your relationship will end.fo sho.

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  • thestocker
    11 years ago

    its going to be over soon so you might as well start cheating on him right now

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  • 1232123212321
    11 years ago

    were both virgins ahahaha

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  • KrunkFu
    11 years ago

    Yeah he's probably boning another girl and just cares about you too much to tell you, real talk.

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