Boyfriends

i really like a lot of guys and the one i like the most is rude,mean,and hits girls. But the one my parents want me to be with is a geek and nerd...but cute. should i go with the bad boy or the geek? is it normal to want them both?

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Based on 45 votes (35 yes)
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  • lc1988

    Nerd!

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  • chickarina

    I'd rather wait for a hot guy with bad boy looks with a good boy attitude

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  • Chillpill

    How about none of them? When you REALLY want someone, it doesn't normally take a lot of deliberation. It's not like deciding between two pairs of shoes (not for me anyway).

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  • shuggy-chan

    I would say nerd, cause your grammer was horrible. If you dated one you might learn something.

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  • TareBear20

    Geek :)

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  • SoccerStud88

    go for the guy that hits you! It'll make for much better sex.

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  • kyanviado

    Neither, go out with a guy that makes you feel special without the violence

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  • joybird

    Never ever ever go with anyone violent!!!

    You don't have to go out with anyone, make up your own mind with your own standards.

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  • Roku

    never get with someone based on looks (unless your a shallow b****) and you should never get with a guy who hit's girls. you'll know when you found the right guy ( and who knows he might be good looking) just be patient.

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  • That_Guy_From_The_Party

    Go for the geek, give the guy a chance.

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  • Zetsubunny

    Go with the hitting guy and you'll get hit. Simple as that.

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  • i really like both but if you guys want to know i chose neither! (:

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  • why would you purposely go for someone who hits people??

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  • Sweetz

    If you cant decide, don't choose. When you like someone the answer is obvious.

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  • dom180

    Go with the one you like, obviously. If your parents want to decide who you are with, they should leave you alone because it isn't their place. It's your life. If you want go with the one that sounds like a jerk then do. It is probably not a good choice, but it's your choice to make, not your parent's.

    As a side note, this is why I wouldn't let my parents know about my social life. Because they'd get... involved *shivers*.

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  • cookiesaregreat

    neither?

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  • I can't understand why a woman would even contemplate being together with a unpleasant, violent guy. I can only assume that he is physically attractive; which alone is no basis for a long-lasting relationship.

    Re. your questions; yes it's perfectly normal to be attracted to more than one person, but the choice of bf is yours.

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    • flutterhigh

      Weren't you ever 15?

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      • Yepp. At 15 I was a geek who couldn't understand why so many of the nice girls wanted to be with the wasters.

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