Boyfriend shares nude pics of me with his dad

So my boyfriend and his dad are pretty close, like your usual father and 19 yr old son.

Anyways, my bf told me he wanted some naked pics of me, and honestly, I kinda chickened out, and the best he got was me topless and in my panties. He told me he was really into it, and I sent him a few more (in total he probably has 4 sent from me, and around 5/6 that he's taken of me on his own).

Well, I recently found out that he's been showing them to his friends. Not sending them around, but just letting them see me on his phone.and I mean... Idk his friends, and his friends don't know my friends,so I kinda just said 'you know, whatever'. But now, I got word from his friends that his DAD had seen them too. His DAD!! 43 year old guy seeing me (younger than his son) half naked, and totally exposed.

So I confronted my bf, and he said 'well yeah, you know, he SAW them' and that's all I got out of him. It was like saying 'you know, the pipe was in my mouth, but I didn't actually smoke it'. But he was smiling as he said it, guiltily... Like it... Turned him on??

So, in summary, is it normal of my bf to show naked pics of me all around his male friends and even his parents? And why does he do this?

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  • DannyKanes

    Why? Because your boyfriend is a dick head.

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    • fxfc4cj9

      and she a slut

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  • pufferton

    That is not okay in any way at all... You should only do that with someone you completely trust and love. And if he's showing those pictures to anyone, especially his parents, you shouldn't be trusting him! He's disrespecting you extremely and clearly does not care about you. If he did he wouldn't want anyone in the world but himself seeing you like that. I'm sure you know you deserve better than that. And also he should be slapped.

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    • IrishPotato

      Raped. Not slapped.

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      • pufferton

        Yeah, I guess a slap is hardly the punishment he deserves.

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  • Andrew256

    He's prob letting his dad smell his fingers too.

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  • ccjigsaw

    No way!!! There is no way I would have shrugged off my bf even showing them to his friends. Fuck that, I'd dump his sorry ass, and smash his phone so he can't share'm anymore. Sharing your nudy pics should be with your bf and only your bf. He shouldn't be advertising you like a common porn star..

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  • Just make sure to play nice long enough to get a hold of his phone and delete the pics before you throw his ass to the curb. Twisted & untrustworthy p.o.s. My son has a knockout girlfriend..seeing her nude would be like looking at my own daughter. No way.

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  • InvadingPotatoLeader

    Completely normal, my girlfriend shares my penis with her mom so.

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  • If you do nude pictures, they will be out there for everyone to see. Nudity is not a big deal unless you make it one. My 2 teenage daughters and wife are nude at home most of the time. There are severval of our friends who visit us and we don't get dressed. It is not an issue with us and many other people. Be happy that you are hot enough to be shown off.

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  • chicken471bologna

    Pics or it didn't happen.... :)

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  • Geneva5

    Do you have any naked pics of him and his dad bumming each other ?

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  • IrishPotato

    Perhaps he gets turned on if people find you hot (even his dad)
    However, he should've asked you first, because you know that that is personal stuff.

    I suggest taking his phone, deleting them, and breaking up afterwards.
    If you would break up before deleting, they might end up online and end up in porn sharing societies.

    Long story short, he is indeed an ass (as people stated before) but most of all, he's disrespectful.
    I'm fine with fetishes like that, but atleast ask.

    Hope things work out for you, I really do.
    Alex.

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  • joybird

    You are one very foolish girl.

    Do you not watch TV and see the situations other stupid girls have gotten themselves into with ex bfs posting their naked photos on porn sites etc out of revenge when they've been dumped. When the ex gives out your name and address to perverts.

    Obscurereason is 100% correct.
    If you've any brains at all you will get the hold of his phone and delete them before he posts them onto the internet. Once out there, you cannot control who will see them. This is one very silly thing you could live to regret as there's no guarantee you're going to marry this dick head!!!

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  • Horny_Fag_69

    does he have facebook? i would be his friend

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  • DudeUrFuglyXox

    no thats so wrong

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  • RinTin

    I honestly don't believe that you would blow it off and say "you know, whatever." I don't really understand why you are asking if this is okay. It's not. NORMAL people are not like this.

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  • ChrissySnow

    I'm sorry but I have mixed feelings on different sides on this. After I saw my first Playboy and then Porky's and stuff, I was MUCH more willing to be seen like that. When boyfriends wanted to take Polaroid's of me, I agreed. My only rule was they couldn't show my face at all. If they did, then I got them. Not sure what to do with mine, I just stashed my Polaroid's of me under my dresser.

    My biggest worry was if my Dad saw them. My father found my stash under my dresser, but not until after I was married a few years. He surprised me by being pretty cool about it.

    Anyways, after my husband saw my collection from before he met me, he insisted on making a collection of me of his own. We did. At first I kind of freaked when he started showing my photos off to his friends and brothers.

    Maybe not for you, but for us, I reluctantly let him show off my photos to anyone he wants. When it comes to family, he mostly makes it look like an accident. No matter how he does it, I just don't want to be around when he does or know about it when it is happening. I do sometimes like to hear about their reactions afterwards, sometimes.

    I think my father-in-law is about the only man on my husband's side that hasn't 'accidently' seen any nude photos of me. I'm sorry but I don't agree with all the negative thoughts on this. I don't really have much of a problem with your boyfriend. I'm not going to tell my husband but the truth is I wouldn't mind if my FIL saw them.

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    • mrydan28

      Good old Porkys and Playboy! The times have changed, I think its less about someone seeing you naked as it is about permission. I'm not shy at all, but if there is a violation of trust and a broken agreement between two people there is a problem.

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  • pus_ha

    cn i see u naked?

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  • weirdquestions1

    I've showed a picture of my boyfriend's body to my best friend. I'm guessing your boyfriend is just proud of you and happy that he got pictures. I think showing them too his dad though was wrong and make sure he deletes the ones he has and don't ever send them to him again if you can't trust him 'cause that is kind of weird..

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  • sweetpea29

    Ew that's actually creepy. Imagine what his dad thought. o.o gross.
    Why would you be okay with other people seeing you semi naked? Even if you don't know them don't you feel disrespected? or uncomfy?
    If you didn't care about his friends seeing you then you shouldn't care about the dad.

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  • FrancoisDillinger

    I don't like sharing naked pictures of women i'm seeing. Casually or otherwise.

    I don't want anyone else to see what i'm getting lol

    As a guy, you work hard to get women! why let someone else share your (for lack of a better word) prize?

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  • bff

    I would dump him

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  • throw his phone in the trash and drop him

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  • cannibus14

    he sees you as his object
    sorry i don't mean to hurt your feelings
    but fuck this guy
    he should care about your privacy like even more than you do.. you know what i mean? this is almost like he's pulling up your shirt in front of his friends. wouldn't he want that to himself? it doesn't really seem like he values you =/
    it seems more like what he would do if he had sex with a prostitute and took a bunch of pictures with her

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  • thewillies99

    He is an ass

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  • ShreksIdenticalTwinBrother

    I hate to use French but that is fucked up!

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  • Avant-Garde

    That's weird....

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  • candle8

    If it was just his dad, ok , I wish all dads and sons were like this, this shows closeness and friendship. but he should not show you around to so many people. That's sick. like he's a pimp

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    • charli.m

      Um. No. The dad bit is wrong, too.

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