Boyfriend loses his boner

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When me and my boyfriend have sex, he’ll sometimes lose his boner. He says it’s not my fault and that he’s 100% attracted to me, he often does cocaine, drinks and other hard drugs. Could taking drugs and drinking cause this? It’s ruining our relationship because he gets angry and shouts when it happens, I try to reassure him that it’s fine, but he just rolls over and goes to sleep and won’t let me touch him as he goes in a tantrum? Is this normal?

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  • Carlton03
    6 years ago

    It’s probably the drugs and alcohol, may I ask why you dating what appears to be a heavy drug user and drinker?

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  • EnglishLad
    6 years ago

    His drug taking is what makes him lose his boner. If he gets frustrated, don't let him take his frustration out on you.

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  • Rictictavie
    6 years ago

    Yes drugs, particularly coke, can make you lose a boner. It's not you.

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    It's his issues not you

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    The losing boner part is normal and true he very most likely is 100% attracted.

    The drugs and tantrum are abnormal.

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    • Tilly2560el
      6 years ago

      I don’t need any lectures about him taking drugs though, what he does in his spare time is up to him. I’ve been and done the drug bit so I’m none the less to judge him on that

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      • rayb12
        6 years ago

        I think you should re-read what I wrote, as you seem to have interpreted far more than what is actually there.

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        • Tilly2560el
          6 years ago

          No no, I didn’t mean it in that way. I was just saying before anyone else picked up on that

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          • rayb12
            6 years ago

            Ah okie I understand

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  • Carlton03
    6 years ago

    are dating*

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    • Tilly2560el
      6 years ago

      He only does it occasionally, like party’s, or festivals

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      • Carlton03
        6 years ago

        Okay I see, guess that’s not too bad, anyway if it continues perhaps consult a doctor.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    any drugs that end in letters cain (biblical Cain and Able ) can sink a hard on. that bad boy and his Porsche you chose over the normal drug fee man cant satisfy you when it counts the most. does he still want you to suck his limp noodle to earn you share of his stash ? i have had a lot of "female best friends" that dated the hot bad boy druggies , but when the needed a good ass poking would try to get me to fuck them in a closet at work . all the time i was drug free , had a job with a pay stub and a rock hard cock. No one here can solve your problem, we have all herd it before. No he wont stop using so you can get your rocks off. so dont bother asking him to do that, his next bimbo is already in line.

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  • Ratmanparoled
    6 years ago

    Well, good rock is definitely a cause for a limp Johnson. Added to the drinking your man will quickly turn into a half a man. Tell him to be patient and let the coke effects wear off a little. Smoking some weed will help bring the matter in/at hand. That's where you come into the picture. Get me?

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  • sararyan7242
    6 years ago

    Get a guy that can fuck you all night long or you are going to be miserable.

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