Boyfriend is to dirty for me

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I want honest opinions here, no silly troll comments. My boyfriend likes to be dirty when we have sex, switch from me giving him a blow job right to sex, he even tried spitting in my vagina. I think it's gross, I like to think he's clean before he goes up there. I don't want infections, or to get smelly. I also make him wash his hands before he fingers me or anything like that. I don't want him being like "Ohhh! Kitty!!" *pet pet* then sticking his dirty hands up there. Am I normal for this, do other women worry about this? Guys, do your girlfriends do this? Thanks for any advice, my boyfriend hates this..

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    This is what happens when you rush into sex before you're mature enough to handle it.

    You end up having sex with young men who act immature.

    I would suggest waiting until you - and your partners - are a bit more mature.

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    • ccjigsaw
      12 years ago

      Haha mature is definatly part of it! He's one year younger than me, and it shows. He was also a virgin, but i'm rather patient, and I understand he's learning. Just wanted to make sure i'm not weird for making him jump through the hoops

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        12 years ago

        that explains it.

        as for "one year younger" that depends on how old you are.

        If you're under 21 that may make a world of difference.
        If you're both over 21 however... it won't matter that much.

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        • ccjigsaw
          12 years ago

          Under 21 lol 20 and 19. Him being 19, he's a handful, honestly sometime he just seems stupid to me. I'm hoping as he gets older he'll grow up, I'm willing to teach lol Plus he's a sweetheart

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          • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
            12 years ago

            ah... yeah, he's over 18 but... at that age many men haven't matured yet.

            I always felt that men normally pulled their heads out of their butts around age 25.

            Unless they're in the military. Then it may be delayed until 35.

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            • ccjigsaw
              12 years ago

              Haha, I can agree to that. Here's hoping, thanks :P

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  • Gelmurag
    12 years ago

    If you have to tell him to be clean before hand, I think he missed that chapter in guy school. I've not been with very many people but I'm borderline ocd about being clean, so its natural to me. But if this is something you have to keep reminding him about, it sounds like he's pretty dense. Find a new guy.

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    • ccjigsaw
      12 years ago

      He's new at this lol But he now washes his hands after he uses the bathroom and doesn't try to touch me like that if he's pet an animal or hasn't washed his hands, but he still complains :P I'm making sure I'm not being overly sensitive. I kinda figured most of us woman doesn't want men putting weird s*** up there

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      • Gelmurag
        12 years ago

        The first time i ever fingered a girl, i asked her to hold on for a few minutes, and went and double soaped my hand, and even part way up my arm. When I got back she was staring at me, and I told her I just wanted to be clean. She grabbed my hand, sucked my finger and said "for the future, just do this, it will clean it enough." I'm not sure I agree with that, but the last few times I did anything with someone used that trick and they seemed to not care. Something about, if you can eat me out, your spit is clean enough. I dunno, I just follow orders.

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        • ccjigsaw
          12 years ago

          Ohhh! So your a guy! That's interesting to hear, I kinda thought it was common sense to. I mean noone wants an infection. But honestly, if he sucked his finger "clean", I'd be like (-.-) Good for you though! That shows a great amount of respect!

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          • Gelmurag
            12 years ago

            I guess I have a reverence for all things sex. As a chubby nerd, getting to even hold hands with a girl is something special to me. So I'll do what it takes to make sure that she's healthy, and satisfied. And if thats taking a few minutes to make sure everything is clean, then a few minutes well spent to ensure she's healthy. But I've always been told I'm a nice guy, so maybe that has something to do with it. /shrug

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  • EAT_IT
    11 years ago

    I always make sure that before eating a delicious meal that both my hands and my food are very clean.

    Hygiene is very important! :)

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