Boyfriend hates my butt plugs

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Hey so ive always been a big fan of buttplugs, my boyfriend has always known this, and for a long time i stopped wearing them for him. However i grew sick of it and started wearing them again, and he hates it. Sometimes he will stsrt to grope me ass then feel the plug and just retreat immediatly. Just last night we got into our snuggle spot and he wouldnt even really snuggle me, not like how he usually does. He just kinda laid there with his arm up. It was so unaffectionate, so i dont know is this behavior normal or even acceptable over a stupid butt plug? I feel like its not.

Edit, we just talked for like a minute, (have to head to work) he thinks im self absored in my own interests and that im not giving him attention that its weird ro be in bed with him ehile plugged, he never even goes for my ass anyways! Expect ro spank it!

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  • CozmoWank
    5 years ago | pl

    Doesn't walking around with one of them in your ass cause internal damage or something?

    I can see sticking one in during sex but it just seems like leaving it in for too long can't be too good for you.

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    • curious-bunny
      5 years ago

      Honestly i dont know, i dont think so though, my ass tightens up pretty quick when i stop

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      • Maid_in_Pink
        5 years ago

        There are chances but really its just like any muscle, if you work to stretch it out you should work on exercising it too. As long as you don't damage it through tears or abuse it's really not that bad later on. A lot of people who engage in extreme amounts of anal sex where there is quick and sudden bursts that can cause tearing or distress are the ones that have the most problems. Also...the plug is designed to have a smaller opening where the sphincter muscles are specifically so it doesn't cause permanent stretching but allows you to stretch the internal areas where a lot of discomfort occurs from lack of preparation.

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  • palepunk
    5 years ago | pl

    You need a new boyfriend because clearly he isn’t interested.

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  • McBean
    5 years ago

    You will never be happy until you roll a condom on your boyfriend's cock and have him butt fuck you.

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    • curious-bunny
      5 years ago

      That us true, but hes not ready yet, why on earth would i use a condom? A sinple test can allow so much more fun condom free stuff

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      • McBean
        5 years ago

        It's mostly to keep his urethra from getting infected. Plus, people say that condoms get slippery with lots of lube. So, keep his penis healthy. You don't want a sick cock stroking your vagina in the future.

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        • curious-bunny
          5 years ago

          Hmm thats a very interedting point, in the end he hstes condoms and i want to feel him shoot inside me, so i mean.. its good advice though, i was not aware of that thank you for informing me

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          • McBean
            5 years ago

            Yes, I suppose a girl would like to feel warm sperm shooting up her butt. But unfortunately, it's best to squeeze him off and let his sperm coat you only in your vagina or your mouth.

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            • curious-bunny
              5 years ago

              Well i dont have a vagina.. my ass is my pussy, and it kinda is one. Mmm definitly cpuld use sone jizz in my mouth right now

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    So you wear one outside of sexual situations?

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    • curious-bunny
      5 years ago

      Yes yes i do, its actually very nice and comfy

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      • loveanal
        5 years ago

        I have alot of them and they feelincredible especially when you masturbate. I have huge ASSGASMS. Awesome

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      • Adrianalslut4cum
        5 years ago

        I like you’re perverse mind :)

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        • curious-bunny
          5 years ago

          It gets worse dont worry:)
          Thank ya. Im glad ya do! Perversion for the win!

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  • 100jimi
    5 years ago

    I also hate my wifes butplugs, so I pul them out and replace them with my dick. She is satisfied with it too.

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  • Track0000
    5 years ago

    He's not a man of A S S

    -100 respect

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  • justme31756
    5 years ago

    i have been plugin my ass for 25 years the anus has great muscle control ,,i have been fisted many times ,,,the trick is don"t do it every day just a few times on weekends ,,now days i do Foley Catheter and having my ass fisted ...i am 63 years old still going slow and lots of lube in the ass also during the week use cbd oil enema in and around the hole works great...life is short enjoy it...

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      That's my motto for life!

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  • randypete
    5 years ago

    My girlfriend and I both love to get plugged together we both love the feeling

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  • curious-bunny
    5 years ago

    Maybe, im willing to take that risk, i dont want to die old anyways and i know people who take far bigher sizes most there life. I feel pretty safe. Plus i enjoy them alot, im willing to risk it

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    • 1912Titanic
      5 years ago

      Hey, wearing diapers is not fun. If you want to take the risk, you go ahead.

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    • bigbudchonga
      5 years ago

      Good on you curious-bunny! Don't listen to everyone else, I think it's a good idea, also if you are wearing diapers or have a leaky butthole then maybe that would make sex more interesting? People aren't looking at the positives as well.

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      • curious-bunny
        5 years ago

        Right! Besides being made incontinent with the right partner cpuld be very fun! Plenty of people are into that stuff. But yea in the end that highly unlikly vhance is worth it! I just enjoy having something in my ass all the time to much to not do it. We all have our vices!

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    • loveanal
      5 years ago

      Alot of women wear butt plugs and they feel incredible. What's wrong with your BF?? I wish I had a gf who wore one. I put one in sometimes too. They get your ass warmed up for dildo play. You will be fine.

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  • lottaworth
    5 years ago

    Nothing wrong with buttplugs man. Don't know why you seem to think its something massive stretching your sphincter 24/7. Most of what it does is internal and anything done to the sphincter is fleeting at best.

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    • curious-bunny
      5 years ago

      Yea pretty much, theres like a light stretch depending on size but nothing terrible

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  • Columbusbiguy
    5 years ago

    This may be late curious bunny so i hope you see it, but the real question is, what do you want out of this relationship? If this is your major sticking point, there are 2 options, stsy or go. But i think the answer is somewhere in the middle. On nights you feel he may be interested in sex, maybe dont wear it. I think you need to find a compromise that works for you both, if you think the relationship is worth it. Thsts what relationships are, a compromise. Good luck.

    BTW, i find it hot, you wear one. Have alwsys wanted to try one myself.

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    • curious-bunny
      5 years ago

      Yea it is somewhere in the middle. Like it bugs me alot but its not a deal breaker. It wouldn't be so bad if he actually had sex with me or cuddled me for that matter.. yea we've reached a compromise on it for the most part but in the end im just not able to get in the mood for it when he makes me feel the way he does for wearing one. You definitly should try one! They are amaz ing! It just feels right to have something in your ass all the time

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  • Sea0fTranquility
    5 years ago

    My girlfriend also enjoys wearing one. She’s got a bunch of cute ones with little hearts and flowers and stuff. I find it a huge turn on when she asks me to put it in for her, then goes off to what she has to do that day. Maybe you need to start bringing what you enjoy into his world. I’ve heard of men being jealous of their girls vibrators,maybe if he felt “I put that there and she likes it” he would come around to it more.

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  • Geekt67
    5 years ago

    Something is seriously wrong with him. He should LOVE that you’re into buttplugs and it should turn him on enormously. Something is wrong with him if he’s not arroused by you wearing a buttplug while you’re out to dinner etc. I’d LOVE to find a woman like you.

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    • curious-bunny
      5 years ago

      We are actually quite common haha, yea it should, I wish it did. I love beibgc plugged but he's so agaisnt it it's hard to do it cause of the way he acts

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  • LuvItAll
    5 years ago

    Get a new boyfriend. I would encourage you to wear your butt plugs...even help you put it in!

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    • curious-bunny
      5 years ago

      Haha maybe someday I will. But for now I love him

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  • Theunkownmale
    5 years ago

    God dam if you was my gf id love it id even help you to insert it 😊

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    • curious-bunny
      5 years ago

      I wish my bf would! It bums me out

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    He isn’t going to all of sudden like it. If it makes him uncomfortable that you like wearing a foreign object up your ass for no reason outside of having sex, then stop doing it, or find someone else who digs it. Simple enough. Seems to me you’re a selfish kid to choose a buttplug over someone who cares about you.

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  • Alexvbhg
    5 years ago

    But they make it so you have more pleasure during sex right. It makes it tighter. So i would say thats a good thing for him aswell? Is there any specific reasons why he dislikes it?

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    If your ass leaked, would you be ashamed to wear a diaper?

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    I bet her anus is irritated, just like you are by me.

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  • curious-bunny
    5 years ago

    Here one can acquire a neatrual opnion, if i ask tge folk on my mormal sights ill get nothing but stwy plugged, if i ask folks on ither sights ill fet don't, here i get a but of both and calculate it all up. Most men are actually quite ingo it, at leadt the men I've met and junk. And no he hates the idea pure and simple, but we came up with a comprise

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  • bigbudchonga
    5 years ago

    What does your butt plug taste like?

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    • curious-bunny
      5 years ago

      Depends on material, but it tastes like my butt generally, so pretty yummy

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      • bigbudchonga
        5 years ago

        Noiiiice

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        • curious-bunny
          5 years ago

          Yup! If its been on my butt you know its going in my mouth afterwords

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  • maddison12345
    5 years ago

    buttplug usage is a kink and he just isn't into that kink!

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  • CrookedPigeon
    5 years ago

    He should be happy hes got a freak in the sack. It probably makes him insecure and uncomfortable because your more into kink than he is. Try to make him more comfortable around you and kink stuff. Maybe watch porn together and push the limits a little at a time. Don't throw him into the sub chair right from the start. And let him know that just because you like it doesn't mean you want him to let you do that to him. Unless he wants you to lol

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    • curious-bunny
      5 years ago

      Um were both into kink, but yes im definitly much kinkier and um open to things than him, i would never through anyone into a sub chair! Im a full blooded submissive thank you very much! But yea i his veiws on it are scewed. Hes definitly more passive than me, however he really enjoys pushing my pain threshold to the test

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      • loveanal
        5 years ago

        I suggest that everyone go to: Tushy.com the art of anal sex. Or vixen.com. Anal sex is the best. It's so fucking intense.

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  • curious-bunny
    5 years ago

    24/7 plug wear is actually quite common, and yes i would if i knew you were outside masterbator ttpe person

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  • Dot123
    5 years ago

    Maybe cause they smell like ass after!

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    • curious-bunny
      5 years ago

      He likes the way my butt snells, i can feel him inhaling when hes down there

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      • Dot123
        5 years ago

        Oh, well it must smell nice.

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  • curious-bunny
    5 years ago

    Not dying young as in by the time any such problems would arise i wpulf be dead. And wearing plugs wouldnt make you incontinent till your body started failing you due to age or some unseen medical problem that would of happened anyways. Like heart attacls or liver failure or whatever. Stuff that seems to follow ypur family. For mine its diabetes

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  • totally_normal_guy
    5 years ago

    My girlfriend is also fan of this kind of stuff
    So I bought myself some
    I think your boyfriend should accept it.

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    • curious-bunny
      5 years ago

      Right? Thank you! Its not like im asking him to get plugged, just to accept i like being plugged is all.

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  • davidleman23
    5 years ago

    What I would do... I would respect what you do, because you like buttplug... as soon as girl enjoys, I enjoy too... so I would play with your buttplug if I was your bf... I would even buy you new ones...

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    • curious-bunny
      5 years ago

      Youd think, last night he told me he will take it as a sign i dont want to be touched there. And wouldnt listen to anything i said. Stupid idiot if anything its a come fuck me sign

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      • davidleman23
        5 years ago

        Literally it is a sign that you want to be fucked there of course... I don't know how he can't get it... Honestly if i feel that a girl has buttplug in her, I would cum immediately... Seriously, those things are really sexy and that means that you like experimenting in sex and trying new things... Maybe your bf has different sex perspectives

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        • curious-bunny
          5 years ago

          It seems he does. I guess nothing can be dine about it, you know how we humans get set in our ways.and yea it is, cause i definitly want to be fucked! Je has yet to and its like dude just stick your dick in me already

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  • rayb12
    5 years ago

    How would you feel if a guy said a woman's resistance to touch him how he liked was unacceptable?

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    • curious-bunny
      5 years ago

      Im not certain i understsnd what you are saying, can you please explain it?

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      • rayb12
        5 years ago

        Nvm. I didn't realize it was your post. You're cool.
        I just was saying how if the genders were reversed a lot of people would see saying not touching how you like is unacceptable would be misogynistic or something

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        • curious-bunny
          5 years ago

          Ooh i getcha now! Wow im sorry i didnt get your meaning sooner, and honestly i would try to be understanding and talk about it. I guess we all have our comfort zones that we dont really want to breach for anyone.

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