Boyfriend cums inside

There are plenty of other birth control options. There are also plenty of other options for sex. Please don't get pregnant by this asshole. He sounds like a dick. You don't want to have to deal with him for the rest of your life.

Yes, my BF likes to cum inside too without condom. Did you try birth control ring or diaphragm? Now I am using the control ring, it is safe, more effective than condom and really comfortable.

Why are you taking that risk?! You said it yourself, "get pregnant and ruin my life". You know that it could ruin your life and yet you're doing it anyway, that's stupid. If you keep doing this you will get pregnant. Plus no, it's not normal for him to do that after you've told him not to, he sounds like a very shady character.

Seems to me he has no respect for you at all , dump his ignorant ass

don't put up with it. there are a whole world of men out there who will treat you right

Sounds like you're being abused

No, you don't need sex. Especially with an asshole like this.

You're going to have a kid for sure

You need to tell him to wear a condom or go in bathroom and Jack it himself. You are going to trust him to be honest and pull out BEFORE ? Well the check is in the mail, and I won't cum in your mouth. You need to stick to your guns if you don't want to end up pregnant, then I bet he will haul ass, accuse you of cheating, and sweat it's not his kud, etc. All the shit that guys like to do when they get a girl pregnant.

Following figures from Planned Parenthood:

If a woman relies on the withdrawal method of contraception and the couple does the technique perfectly, there's a four in a hundred chance of her getting pregnant in any given year.

If the technique isn't done perfectly - and most people don't follow all the rules - then the chance is one in five.

I have no idea how PP came up with those numbers. Obviously, the odds of something going wrong are a lot worse if the couple is fucking like bunnies four times a day, compared to a couple that has sex once a week.

Withdrawal isn't merely "less than 100% safe", it's playing Russian roulette: keep doing it long enough, and it's certain that you will get pregnant sooner or later.

From what you say, it sounds like you don't trust your boyfriend. That's bad news in lots of ways, but maybe you should point out to him that if you do get pregnant, it will not be just your problem to solve. He will also be responsible. If you should decide to have the child, he will be legally responsible for helping to support the kid. If he thinks that won't be a big deal, tell him to check out the laws on child support and all the sanctions that are available to the state if a father doesn't pay child support.

If you live in the USA, it's a federal law that wilful non-payment of child support for more than two years or owing child support of more than $10,000 is a felony and can result in a jail sentence of up to two years.

Is wearing a condom really so horrible that he'd rather either give up a large chunk of his paycheck for 18 years or do time in a federal penitentiary?

As a guy I can say its hard to control and resist, we can not deny biology, but he should respect you so tell him to use a condom and it will be all right...