Boyfriend cheated on me with a psycho? normal male behavior?

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My boyfriend and I had been together 7 years and we were besties but I got depression after my sister died and I was down often and in the beginning right after she died he was supportive but as the months passed he stopped caring acted bipolar out of nowhere and then just cheated on me. Found out he was seeing a girl who btw isn't attractive so it's not about looks.

When I asked him why he said he couldn't handle us anymore and I said because I'm depressed because my sister died? He said no but that has also been a challenge because he has no energy to support me. speaking with one of his friends they said he couldn't handle me being down and he felt miserable all the time.

Anyway ready for this? now he's left me for the girl he cheated on me with. They were together about 7 months maybe. In the beginning I knew she was psycho but he didn't. All I had to do was look at her Facebook. In her profile photo she looks normal however go to her other photos or posts and she's a psycho. Literally pouring hot wax from a burning candle on her face at his cousin's wedding what the hell? And she's 26. Also likes to write reviews for restaurants here are two, you'll love: "Place was okay I hate seafood though I know it's a seafood restaurant but I hate seafood so have a burger for me next time!!!!!!!!"

And "Went here with friends hated it Atmosphere was nice but food was terrible even a homeless person wouldn't eat here get your crap together or you're going to fail. I've been reviewing restaurants for years I am basically professional so listen to me and I have a master's degree in biology so I know your food could potentially kill someone"

She never dated anyone before either so he's the first..Why did he go for her?! His friend told me he doesn't even talk about her in a prideful way anymore. I don't know if this is normal for a man to just ditch me for someone crazy or what.

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    You may never know why he's with her, but it's his choice: all you have control over is how you respond to the situation and as there's not a single thing you can do about it I suggest you work on getting over it and gaining some detachment. There's no point whatsoever in stressing over something you can't change

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  • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
    5 years ago

    She's probably a slut and spreads her legs for him all the time. But regardless Let Go it's un~healthy to obsess over this in a way he did you a favor fuck him hos a cheater his probably cheating on her too

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