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iv been with my boyfroend for 1yr he says he keeps his feeling to himself so he never tells me he likes me misses me, or loves me , I know he was hurt in the past but i dont know where i stand with him when i asked him he said hes a logical man and he keeps his feeling to himself and if I don't like it I should just say. I'm fond of him so i stay but im wondering if im wasting my time with him surely if he liked me he would say something but he never does, he wont kiss me unless i make the first move but one time he did kiss me when he thought i was asleep but it was as quick as lightening im wondering if hes like this because he dont trust woman witch is what he as said because he got hurt or its because hes not that into me ? Should i stay or go ?

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Comments ( 8 )
  • Rabidrabies

    Make it clear to him how important showing affection is to you and how it makes you feel insecure that he doesn't, regardless of his situation. If he's not willing to put himself in your shoes, then maybe it's best to take a break.

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  • NathanScot

    Stop wasting your time. Cher'

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  • Picklejuiceandpussy

    The fact that you even have to ask this question, should tell you it's time to move on. He has issues, which he needs to be trying to fix. Are you ok with dealing with an emotionless relationship? I wish women would stop thinking they can change and fix everybody!

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  • deathstroke

    You should give him a chance in case he feels insecure

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  • Digsbie

    go! life is too short to waste time

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  • sandnigga

    Could be that he just lacks confidence in himself. Who knows

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    • LillyD

      Thats true thank you i dont want to give up on him incase that is the reason he is confident in every other area of his life its just it comes to his heart hes just so closed off i know i cant change him and i wouldnt wont to , but i wish he could just let me know what he feels about me if anything at all .

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      • sandnigga

        no, theres nothing wrong with trying to get him to open up for you :) as a couple you two should be close anyway

        if he rejects you then he does, theres still nothing wrong with giving it a shot lol

        n yea no problem :)

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