Boy i'm in deep shit

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I'm all fucked up. There's this girl that I work with and I've developed strong feelings for her. It's gotten to the point where I can't even hide how much I like her at work and it's getting uncomfortable. It's uncomfortable at home when I think about her, it's uncomfortable at work when I see her, even though I like it at the same time. See, I told you, I'm fucked up. She's given me a few signals too. But isn't it usually a bit of a dangerous idea to date a coworker? Not that that is going to stop me from going for it, I just wanted some other people's input. Anyone have any experiences with this? is it normal that I think if I went for it that things wouldn't necessarily turn into a massive shit show?

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  • JackRoberts
    8 years ago

    if you want to date her go for it but if you want an easy fuck you should look elsewhere as things could get awkward. but yeah if you honesty like her and want to start a relationship with her ask her out on a date (dont call it a date but secretly it is) make her smile and happy then bam you are out of dating her or a life sentace of the friend zone. good luck.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Would you still be able to work there if things ended badly with her?
    That is the question I would be asking myself.

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  • benvigil
    8 years ago

    i think its a bad idea to have sex with a coworker, like gypsysailer said if things go bad, the work place goes bad! If it goes well and you can still work together then you would be Blessed!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Things got bad just from me pursuing her. It's all very subtle, and I don't know how perceptive she is of how strong my feelings are, but the energy between us is wrong now, where it was right before. She at least knows that I really like her, and that's why the boyfriend was brought into the conversation. Fuck fuck fuck! Hate my life.

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  • CDmale4fem
    8 years ago

    I did that years ago, but damn I was so in love with her, but I guess her husband was too. then the stupidvisors tried to get me for sexual harrassment.

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  • jaradscellmate
    8 years ago

    I fuck anything that will let me, whats the worst that could happen. Right Jarad.

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  • BlackyHancock
    8 years ago

    Im in same situation

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago

    Dont date her, rather ask her if its okay to just finger and fuck her now again?

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  • SuMaFTW
    8 years ago

    Ask her out to dinner. Don't hide it. If she refuses, you'll have your answer; if she accepts, you may gain something. Either way, it's a win situation.

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    Here i thought you were going to die or something. Then i find out its just you who cant control yourself. Learn to control your mind and feelings, then your problem is solved forever.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Well I might as well be dying. You're an asshole by the way.

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      • flyingnostalgia
        8 years ago

        Sorry ¦:(

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