Borderline personality disorder

Is it normal I continually find myself in relationships with women with borderline personality disorder?

Actually it happened twice with one girl. And then I spent 4 years turning girls down and avoiding them, sensing they had it. And then ultimately I walk head first into another one.

I'm really not sure what to do, how to heal mu childhood injuries so I find attraction in mentally healthy women. Or at least with a different disorder.

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Based on 8 votes (5 yes)
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Comments ( 10 )
  • You can get the best of both worlds by dating a girl with multiple personality disorder.

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    • Usually all alters have borderline tendencies. Even just a regular borderline presents normal appearing behavior, but this is part of the trap.

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    • Alichael

      A lot of women have multiple personalities in general, well their wild mood swings make it seem so.

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      • rayb12

        DID is a defined disorder usually brought on by multiple highly traumatic episodes. Its maybe one of the few disorders that actually is even more intense than BPD aside from more intense levels of psychosis or dementia

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        • Shackleford96

          DID = dissociative identity disorder

          BPD = bi-polar disorder

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          • rayb12

            BPD is actually borderline personality disorder

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            • Shackleford96

              My mistake. Thanks

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  • DoctorPunk

    Women with BPD are good at making positive first impressions. You will possibly start to notice inconclusive thought after a while. The way to handle BPD is to break off the relationship early before it becomes damaging.

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  • Weird people attract similar weird people.

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    • HellsAngel88

      Yes we do

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