Bondage fantasy

I am pleased to see that my post is acknowledged.Thanks to Dad and FocoUS....
More answers will be appreciated.....

Q-1--Is it normal to have that kind of thoughts?

You must be joking? Bondage is all over the Internet. This is where you likely first found out about it. Yes its normal, did you think all these people were crazy or something?

Q-2--What is the woman point of view regarding bondage as foreplay?

Well not a woman, but been with a lot.
No problem what so ever. As long as she trusts you. And is in to that.

Q-3--How can i talk or convince or initiate conversation with her about this matter?

Well it helps to have the nylon rope handy ;)
One way is during foreplay/sex, to mention that you'd like to do it, and then see her reaction.

Q-4--Are women like to be submissive and what is the submissive percentage of women?The info can help me to initiate considering law of averages.

I say yes. But then again there are women who also want to be dominant too. I'm not into that myself, but many guys are, their sick I tell yu!

Q-5--If her response is positive how to start to tying her up in the sense she feel it sensual not a burden and how to foreplay then?

Well during foreplay, bring out the nylon rope.
That's about it.

Oh all that was just my personal opinion. There is no strict guideline to all of this. Except trust on BOTH sides of course.

question 1: Yes its normal but uncoventionol question t: it depends on the women she may be kinky. question 3:tell her you want to try something new in the bedroom question 4:women make up a larger percent of the submissive part of the SnM poppulation however there is some women who like to be dominate. , question 5: for foreplay um I guess put a knife to herthroat slowly slide it down her neck and make small cuts on her body and star licking them, than maybe slide her cloth off as you doso and lick the blood from her wounda after biting her neck and than bite her nipple and start sucking her tits than cuff her to the bed and gag her and than gag her with ball and fuck her than tie her ti the bes backwards were her butts facing up and fuck her anually than poor wax on her back and I guess smack her butt while she iastill gagged. I dont know maybe thatll work? since you like kinky I do not think youcould get much kinkier?

I like to be tied up.

Oh my god... why do I keep seeing these. JUST LOOK UP S&M, do not do something without your partners permission, and if your partner is not comfortable do not force it. Simple... yes many people are kinky. You are not the only person on this planet and if its with another consensual adult its fine. Do whatever you want.. its your sex life. Long as your partner is ok with it.

Q-1--Is it normal to have that kind of thoughts?

BDSM is normal and fun in consenting relationships.

Q-2--What is the woman point of view regarding bondage as foreplay?

I personally helped pick out my own bondage items. Taking a hand in this made it even more fun.

Q-3--How can i talk or convince or initiate conversation with her about this matter?

Communication. Communication. Communication. If you already have good communication with her then you shouldn't have to fear suggesting it. Perhaps both of you should make lists of what you want to try in bed, what you never want to try, and what you're willing to try - then you can compare and work out a sexual plan that's agreeable to both of you

Q-4--Are women like to be submissive and what is the submissive percentage of women?The info can help me to initiate considering law of averages.

Depends. There's dome and subs in both genders

Q-5--If her response is positive how to start to tying her up in the sense she feel it sensual not a burden and how to foreplay then?

Refer to Q3 - communication. Make her an active partner in this and she'll pretty much tell you what to do*

* and then you'll come into one of the secrets of Dom/Sub... who is really in control? You may think the Dom is but the Dom has to be sensitive and pay attention to the Sub's needs and wishes. In a way... it's really the Sub who has control

Any thing innovative the members think can be helpful in creating variation.Share your experience.....

I, for one, am turned on by this kind of stuff.

''The scene setting,choice of clothes,proper time to introduce rope and gag,how to foreplay when she is helpless,these all things are needed to be addressed.So the thoughts of senior members who have experienced this role play is of much importance.''
Kindly share your comments on above phrase.

''To Dad and members''
Actually i am dominant in nature by trait and i feel like that.I was unaware of this hidden trait of mine till i felt some erotic feeling in my brain.Sometimes this eroticism feelings are intense but it doesn't mean to dominate or harm anyone.
Often thinking about the scenario where i could tie my woman hands behind her back and her feet too wearing erotic clothes (e.g bikini) gives me an intense dominant power psychologically.The addition of some suitable gag is only to intensify or to gain the peak of eroticism.
''A shame for all that work and a 30 second climax.''I do agree with ''Dad'' in this regard but my thinking to somewhat is different. look foreplay is the woman's need.A man requires only an ignition.The main idea of role play is to engage a man in some kind of foreplay which mutually benefit both sides.As men are naturally dominant in nature as contrary to women so a man can use his dominant power to satisfy the submissive needs of woman.So there remains some matter of interest for both.
Purpose of this act is to produce the same kind of feeling in her.The only problem that i am facing is that i am new to this.It is still a mental sketch as i do not want to jump into it without proper guidance.
The scene setting,choice of clothes,proper time to introduce rope and gag,how to foreplay when she is helpless,these all things are needed to be addressed.So the thoughts of senior members who have experienced this role play is of much importance.
I will appreciate your thoughts.I hope the members will share their opinion with me....

Oh, decided to re-read here and thought of a way that you could initiate this.
Bed scene: During actual sex, grab her hands together and hold them above her head (like under the pillow)
Hold them tight, then say if only I had both my hands free I could do more to please you, but I'd have to keep your hands tied up here.
Hopeful response: Do it then.

Once this has been mastered you could then move on to other bondage techniques, feet, one leg up whilst standing, chair, collar, tickling, steel frame! Seriously its endless possibilities here.

Then bring in the 'other' woman to have her wicked way with her too. Oh wait, don't do that, that may be going too far! But you get the picture.

Note: Warning: Without a willing partner, your momentary excitement will wear off soon, stuck with just you ONLY being pleasured. Boredom will come in and then everything stops. Just don't do it.
Plus, you need to have some type of special word or movement that means STOP (this is if she has been gagged - much further down the track!) If you don't stop, then that will be your last willing bondage session with her. A shame for all that work and a 30 second climax.

ok, I 'think' I've covered everything now, without writing up a bondage and discipline story for you. Lol

1) it's normal and quite comon in men
2)personaly I quite like the submissive\dominant kind of foreplay (me submissive)but it's more like "plaing" and I some times like to do it with my BF but there isn't any boudage, humiliation or exess degraiding, and I know many girls who don't like it. I think the humiliation bit is a real rarity, and a bit sick personaly.
3) I think you have to make sure you have a strong bond with your girl and talk about it, introduce the s\D thing more like a game if she's new to it, don't take it seriously and most of all if she says no it means NO.
4)I don't know any girls who like boundage, but there are quite a few who like the idea of being submmisive, but only if it's with some one they trust. I don't know what it is but it can be fun.
5) start slow the first time, just do a classic tie her hands up then(get creative) best to start by pleasuring her, make sure she likes it.
it depends on how much she likes it or how comfortable she it with it.

Q-1
It's completely normal. Common fetish even.
Q-2
Some women think it's hot. Some find it degrading. We're a diverse bunch. Personally, I'd be okay with being tied up but I wouldn't be okay with gagging.
Q-3
Ask her what her kinks are and tell her what your kinks are. There aren't a lot of conversations when only one person's fetishes are discussed. Explain it to her the way you explained it to us. I'd say DO NOT mention it during foreplay. That's a bad time to talk about things. If she doesn't have time to think about it she might just say "no" because that's simpler. It could also turn into a long conversation and you don't want that in the middle of foreplay.
Q-4
Listen man I don't know the percentage, like I said earlier we're a diverse group. But even if she isn't fond of it I doubt she'd judge you for it.
Q-5
I don't know. Tie her up while kissing her neck?

A woman or man should never agree to bondage unless they know and trust their partner. So don't go bringing it up on the third date. Be patient. Sometimes it's not easy to bring the fetishes forward especially for someone who doesn't have the same fetish. You could start with just tying her hands one night and then go farther the next night. Little by little to the point you want to be at.