Blending issues
I have been seeing my gf for about a year. She has a 2 year old daughter and a 6 year old son. I have two boys, (4 and 7) along with a 5 year old girl. We started blending our children slowly by doing things together here and there. Everything was going really well. The kids were getting along so my girlfriend offered to watch them during the day while I was at work. This was how it was until my daughter accused my gf's son of "some things". Apparently he picked her up and carried her to the bathroom, locked the door and exposed himself to her. Then he tried to take her pants off but couldn't. My little girl said she tricked him into unlocking the door by saying she would take her pants off if he unlocked the door. When he did she ran. My daughter also stated that he was going to do the same thing to my youngest son. Upon finding out, my childrens mother (who I have an awesome relationship with) and I cut all contact with my gf's kids. This was 5 months ago. My kids like my gf and her daughter but hate her son. Understandable. I kinda feel the same. Her son has been seeing a therapist for that and some anger issues as well. The gf wants to move forward but I dont think I can. I'm ready to cut my losses and move forward on my own. The therapist says he's all clear but I'm not convinced. I like my girlfriend but I like my kids more. Anyone ever deal with something like this? Am I wrong in my thinking?