Black women seem to hate me

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I never say this in real life because it would sound racist but its true, 99% of the black females I come into contact with are really mean or rude to me on sight! I am nice to everybody but I get a lot of aggression from them especially in my job(Im a server). I almost never get tips from black women, and they constantly try to make an ass out of me. Ive been in tears because of the awful way Ive been treated. I don't have this problem with black men just the women. Why? In my experience black women are way more racist than any other people Ive ever met. Im a white female btw.

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GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

9 years ago

They hate you because black men would rather fuck a white women then a black women. That is all.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  are you black?
  
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  - GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    
    9 years ago
    
    Are you hitting on me?. -.-
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      just curious as to if you are or are not black because if youre not black how do you know?
      
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      - GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
        
        9 years ago
        
        I live 15 min outside of Compton, I know.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        9 years ago
        
        Lol
        
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wistfulmaiden

9 years ago

Im not racist, I hate everyone equally...

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slings_and_arrows

9 years ago

Maybe they think you hate them because they're very racially conscious and have their own prejudices, so they are being defensive towards their illusory idea that you are racist because you are white.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  That makes the most sense.
  This whole race thing is getting old...
  
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  - slings_and_arrows
    
    9 years ago
    
    Yup it is
    
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modernism

9 years ago

I don't think you're being racist, though I can't say the same about a couple people in this thread. Ignore them. I only think you're running into the wrong people. I promise you there are wonderful black people (women included) out there - but you probably already know that. It's just that stereotypes and generalizations have blurred the race into a bad name, which can rub off to a few.

But there's a thing you can call those people you run into - rude. One thing you don't want to do is name the race you've encountered - name the personality. They're not rude because they're black. They're rude because they (as individuals) are simply rude.

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Avant-Garde

9 years ago

Are you light skinned? Or, are you dark skinned? How African-American culture views skin colour is complicated. Many of them hate on those with dark skin. Light skin is prized. However, there are some that are jealous and hateful towards those with light skin.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Im white
  
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  - Avant-Garde
    
    9 years ago
    
    I see. Well it could be jealously or racism.
    
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Freedom_

9 years ago

Are you sure you're not being a tad bit racist? Have you tried to really understand why you get this impression of them?

I used to feel intimidated by women, especially black women, with strong personalities. I could have let the intimidation grow into fear, but instead I tried to understand why certain women made me feel small, what was the difference between me and her? I also looked at how other girls/women got along with them to get a more objective view of my feelings. It's highly unlikely that so many people hate you for no reason. At a certain point you have to ask yourself, "Is it me?".

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Im not racist Ive dated black guys.
  I have two black female friends, but strange black women seem to love making fun of me. Ive been called Barbie Girl and White Bitch within earshot. Im petite and blonde and black women have mocked me by talking like a valley girl as if its how I talk. I think some black women just do not like white women.
  
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  - LizardSkin
    
    9 years ago
    
    Gross mudshark.
    
    If you care about what black people think you've already got issues.
    
    I honestly can't think of one black person in my entire life that I ever gave a fuck what they thought.. assuming I could translate their language on the spot if they spoke to me.
    
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    - GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
      
      9 years ago
      
      Lol. (I actually laughed out loud... for reals.)
      
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    - slings_and_arrows
      
      9 years ago
      
      Even Martin Luther King, Cornell West, Jeffrey Wright, Maya Angelou, Miles Davis, Billie Hollday...you don't give a shit what they think?
      
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      - LizardSkin
        
        9 years ago
        
        I'd give more of a shit if they did like the rest and didn't "think." Black hip hop culture has spread like wildfire and it's destroying the western world.
        
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        slings_and_arrows
        
        9 years ago
        
        Black ganster types aren't forcing white boys into wiggers, they are doing that themselves. I don't like hip hop culture either. It wouldn't be spreading if white people weren't tail-gaiting it.
        
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      9 years ago
      
      That's rude.
      The nicest guy I ever dated was half black.
      
      My point is I don't necessarily care what they think but I shouldn't have to put up with that shit at my job. Black people can be racist too.
      
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      - LizardSkin
        
        9 years ago
        
        Yeah black people can be racist. They can also be eradicated for all I care.
        
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[Old Memory]

9 years ago

Black women always cook good food.

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- [Old Memory]
  
  9 years ago
  
  Fried chicken and gritz? No fucking thanks..
  
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[Old Memory]

9 years ago

Welcome to how every white person in South Africa feels. Blacks loathe us, and I find it hilerious. Know why? Because nomatter how much they hate, they will never have what we have, and never be what we are. Laugh it off, its funny and sad.

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  9 years ago
  
  Id move!
  
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