Bisexual or ace?

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So, I am a bisexual male. I tend to go more for intelligence when I date girls, but looks when I date guys. This isn't my problem though.

When I'm in bed or on the couch with either a guy or a girl, I don't want to have sex, but I'm happy to give them a hand-job or finger them while making out and even go down on them, but anything to do with my own dick is extremely uncomfortable for me (not physically).

Is this normal?

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Based on 39 votes (17 yes)
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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Doesn't sound normal but at least your a giving partner.

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  • Azaman
    7 years ago

    Doesn't sound normal...

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  • Almightymeow
    7 years ago

    I go for looks , intelligents , and kindness or whatever

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  • assmans
    7 years ago

    Sounds at least somewhat ace to me

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    What do you mean by uncomfortable? Fear? Anxiety? Embarrassment?

    If you want to change this you need to get clearer with yourself about what's actually going on here.

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    • Big-Bic
      7 years ago

      Fear and anxiety. No embarrassment.

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      • Ellenna
        7 years ago

        OK, next step is to work out for yourself fear of what and anxiety about what

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  • Tempest-au
    7 years ago

    I don't think your Ace, but you need to learn to be King of your own body, not just some Queen with his hands full of Jack offs. Life has dealt you a shitty hand, and you'll never take the pot while you can't play your 6 of Clubs, I'm surprised you are not calling open misere!

    Stop playing other people's hands for them. If you don't want to play, then don't play. Anyone who can't understand that needs to learn to play solitaire.

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