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Is it normal that my boyfriend hates that I am bisexual? He's like embarassed when other people know about it and tells me I'm straight now because I'm with him.
Yes, it is normal. He is probably very worried that you are bisexual because it increases the number of people you could fancy. Chances are he is not at all homo- or bi- phobic, he is just frightened to lose you. This will be born largely out of love or possessiveness.
maybe i just run with a different crowd, but most guys i know dating bi chicks are turned on by the fact that their gf is into girls as well. they usually brag about it, and usually ask if they can watch their gf with another girl.
That's pretty ridiculous. He sounds insecure and homophobic. Does it ever seem like he has doubts about his own sexuality? A lot of homophobia in young men stems from fear of possibly being gay themselves.
Anyways, no. I don't think it's normal. In fact I'm pretty sure most men would love it if their girlfriends were bisexual.
Here is the problem. While, yes, bisexual girls are hot, its not the same when it is your girlfriend. Do you worry about him going to the bar and maybe finding interest in another girl or something close to it? Flip roles. He might worry about you going out and not only find interest in another male but ALSO another female. Bisexual girls are hot, but a headache when they are your girlfriend. I know.
It is not normal for many men think girls are bi anyhow. Bi girls are hot!
That is not normal. Every guy I now (including myself) find bi girls extremely hot. You should dump him and go out with a guy who respects your choice... and have threesomes with him.
Well speaking from a straight girl's prospective (who is me) don't be offended when I say that your bf has a good reason for feeling the way he does about your sexuality.
I mean if my bf was bi, I would feel exactly the same for many reasons. Seeing a guy hitting on some other guy is um how can i put this nicely? eh... kinda wrong! And the same goes for girls. Sorry but that is my opinion
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No he's not normal. He has an issue with you being able to love and find others sexually attractive. Its all about him. He wants to own you and dominate you, that's why he says your straight now that your with him.
RUN! Leave his sorry ass before he proves to you that he owns you. Nobody has the right to tell you how YOU feel. Get out and find somebody with self confidence. My wife is Bi and I'm kind of jealous that I'm not.
It is normal that he hates it. If you don't give up the beaver munching, I'll give it 2 months before he dumps your ass for someone who respects him.
No its not if he cant handle ur sexuality and tries to control it. Hes probly a control freak and ull never be happy with him
I had the same problem. I realized if he can't accept me he doesn't deserve me.
i would love a girl or at lest someone to like me. i think the being bi is OK tell your bf to cool it or I'll teach him how to be nicer.
I think it works both ways for men and women. Sometimes it is fun to experiment with the same sex espacially when the other sex is involved.
When you make a decision to commit to a person in a relationship, then the bi and bs should be over. If not, then stay out of comitted relationships.
every guy that finds out im bi is turned on .
so its his problem dump him
I don't know i was with a Bisexual girl a few years back and it did make me uncomfortable about her being bisexual. I think just not to bring it up so he feels comfortable