Bisexual?

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So when I was 14 I discovered that I was not only attracted to guys. Even when I was 13 I never knew there are people who are attracted to same sex too. But eventually when I became attracted to girls I searched on google then found out about same sex love. I have a boyfriend, I even told him that I'm attracted to girls. He shrugged it off & he disgusts same sex attraction. We never had sex & I even don't want to I guess. I was bullied by my friends when I told them about my sexuality, from then I never discussed anything about it to anyone. I'm only attracted to few guys & most of my sexual fantasies are about girls. I don't know if I'm bisexual or a lesbian. So do I need to see a doctor? or is it just normal?

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Why would you need to see a doctor? When you move from fantasy to actual sex with whichever or both genders, then it will almost certainly be clear that like most of us, you are bisexual to some extent.

    Forget about the labels, they're pointless and divisive, just love whoever you love and enjoy it

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    • Short4Words
      8 years ago

      This. Also if anyone doesn't accept you for who you are, they are dead weight, boyfriend included.

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      • Secretstar
        8 years ago

        I think so :/

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    • Secretstar
      8 years ago

      Thank you, I appreciate your thoughts.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Doctor? What kind of bullshit "friends" have you been handing out with that are telling you to see a doctor?

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    • Secretstar
      8 years ago

      I was bullied so badly by my friends when I told them about my sexuality. They laughed at me and thought that I was crazy.

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      • Arm0se
        8 years ago

        Those aren't friends then. You don't need them. Stick with your boyfriend he seems supportive about it.

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        • Secretstar
          8 years ago

          Mmm yeah, he doesn't really care about my sexuality.

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  • ManManMan
    8 years ago

    Since you don't hurt anyone, be yourself!

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  • Adam26
    8 years ago

    You know where I am secret star if u wanna talk

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  • Adam26
    8 years ago

    No Hun it's totally natural
    If u wanna talk kik avfcadam26

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    • Secretstar
      8 years ago

      Hey! Whats wrong with you? I see your same comment on every IIN post? Whats with "If u wanna talk kik avfcadam26"?!

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  • mebaby
    8 years ago

    Personally i kinda get where your comming from.
    I find woman to be more eye pleasing, but when i get a good connection with a guy ill go mad about him.

    It might help to just consider anyone a possible love interest and not completely rule out a intire gender simply because they arent your main sexual attraction.
    Love can make allot of things better so you might enjoy sex with a guy more if you have feelings for him?

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    • Secretstar
      8 years ago

      I might o.o

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  • MisterPapaya
    8 years ago

    Nothing wrong for being lesbian or bisexual. If you like girls then that's your business. You don't have to feel ashamed.

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  • jethro
    8 years ago

    I think the only doctor you need to see is your Gynecologist, as any woman has to, for regular check-ups.

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    • Secretstar
      8 years ago

      Ummm I don't think I need to see a gynecologist :/ I was talking about psychiatrist.

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      • jethro
        8 years ago

        I know what you meant. I also meant you didn't need to see a shrink because there isn't anything wrong with you. But I guess I should have been more direct since you were too dense to get it and the meaning went way over your head.

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  • ILoveWankingOffAndSpunkingUp
    8 years ago

    You have nothing to worry about ^ _ ^ Your whatever you are ok. I'm Bi too. A few odd Mates thought I was suddenly going to want to jump on them .... I DON'T THINK SO! .... I obviously dumped them as so called Mates! Everyone else was ok about it though. Nobody chooses their Sexuality. We're whatever we are, and anyone who has a problem with you, then THEY have a problem, not you ok! There's quite a few Sites etc around where you can make Mates like yourself. It doesn't have to be just a Sex thing, unless you want it to be of course ok. You will probably find that quite a lot of people who slag you off, are in fact, Bi or Gay themselves, but because they can't handle it, they Kick Off at the very people their like, you and me, and others like us! Screw them and just enjoy being you ok ^ _ ^ I hope this has helped you a bit. If you ever want to chat about anything, just Message me ok.
    All The Best
    Dakota
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    • Secretstar
      8 years ago

      Thank you, Dakota. :D Its so nice of you!

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      • ILoveWankingOffAndSpunkingUp
        8 years ago

        Your very welcome ^ _ ^
        All The Best
        Dakota
        ^ _ ^

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        • Secretstar
          8 years ago

          ^.^

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  • Mr-Myrtos
    8 years ago

    I care to say real bisexual people is the third sex.
    Not gays afraid or ashame of being it for some kind of personal reason.
    Real bisexual people should appear in society as that.
    I know a couple of bisexuals and these are the ones that have to come out of the closet.

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  • Nutbolt
    8 years ago

    I am an extremely straight person never even thought of gay sex, so if you want to be straight you need me, atleast i won't bully you ever like your so called friends

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    • Secretstar
      8 years ago

      I do not prefer anal activity :/ I thought I was straight when I first dated a guy but I later learned that I'm a bisexual.

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      • Nutbolt
        8 years ago

        nice then, enjoy then whichever you get

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  • Nutbolt
    8 years ago

    so in your fantasies do you get licked or do you lick? And please tell me that any anal activity isn't part of your any fantasy.

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  • Nutbolt
    8 years ago

    by your description you are lesbian, but by nature you are bisexual. You can keep up to being lesbian but at one stage you would miss real penis in bed.

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  • dytrog
    8 years ago

    A guy can lick you. But if you like licking more than a man's dick in you. It is up to you if you like one more than the other. If it is equal then ask your BF if he would like a threesome. But you have to tell him if you can't decide male or female It's ok to like both.

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    • Secretstar
      8 years ago

      I do not prefer threesome :/ but I can tell him that its okay to like both.

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