Bi guys not for girls?

Ok, so I was thinking. I have been in a relationship with this guy for three weeks who I think is really sweet, and funny, and nice, but he's bisexual. I don't really have a problem with that, but just now, it got me thinking. Does he like me for me? He's never really called me pretty, and sometimes I think, Does he look at me like I'm guy? I mean, i dress sorta guyish and have short hair, so does he look at me like a girl or a guy? and do bi guys like other guys while there in a relationship? I've seen him with other guys, and my head starts racing. Does he like them? I don't want to ask him,cause I'll probably make him uncomfotable. or does he like me because i look like a guy and a GIRL, sice I'm tomboyish. PLEASE HELP AND COMMENT!

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  • Juvu.Lotus

    Oh, believe me, GENUINE bisexual people do exist. I think they always have. Some people are bi because they see no reason not to experiment. Others claim to be bi because they genuinely don't know what sexual direction they feel confident and destined to be latched too forever.

    I'm bi-sexual, and though I've never made it with a girl I know how I feel about them from fantasies and general interaction. I don't know...ask your guy how he KNOWS he's bi. Has he actually experimented, does he have feelings, or is it just an idea?

    I love tomboys! :) Maybe he does look at you and admire your boyish qualities-I mean, who is really attracted to ultra-feminine girls anyway? I personally can't stand them.

    .Love+Light.

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  • nothere2

    OK, I know this is old, but I will answer it.

    I am a bi guy. I am very attracted to tomboyish/short hair girls. I think I'm qualified to answer this question.

    >Does he like me for me?
    I would never date someone just for their looks. Personality is very important

    >He's never really called me pretty
    He is dating you -> he thinks that you are pretty
    Personally sometimes I am afraid to call girl pretty. I am afraid that she will think that I am superficial and that I am only dating her because of her looks.

    >Does he look at me like I'm guy?
    >so does he look at me like a girl or a guy?
    Tomboyish girls with short hair are girls. For him you are a girl. Tomboyish girls have just a different type of femininity.

    >and do bi guys like other guys while there in a relationship?
    Do straight guys find other girls attractive? Do you find other guys attractive? Even if he thinks that someone is attractive, it doesn't mean he will leave you or cheat on you.

    >I've seen him with other guys, and my head
    >starts racing. Does he like them?
    Just because he is bi, doesn't mean that he finds everyone attractive. You are straight, does it mean you find all guys attractive.

    I don't find majority of guys attractive.
    For me: 5% of girls and 0.1% of guys are attractive.

    >I don't want to ask him,cause
    >I'll probably make him uncomfotable.
    Ask him. Communication is important in relationship. Tell him that you want to understand his perspective.

    Remember:
    Just because he is bi, doesn't mean hes not monogamous. Bi and gay are not the same thing.

    Wish you good luck

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    I'm attracted to ultra-feminine girls. ^^

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  • belial

    I'm not sure how much I believe in the whole bisexual thing. I think some people just want more than their share.

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