Bi-curious?

I have only had boyfriends in the past and am completely attracted to guys. When I think of who I want to be with physically, I think of a man. People say that I am very flirtatious, its just the way I talk and am pretty open and non-judgmental. Literally everything I do is considered flirting although I would call it being friendly.

Anyway, a lot of people initially think that I am gay. It doesn't upset me because I dont think it is a bad thing but I just dont think it is true for me. A girl I am very close with however, has recently developed a crush on me and I feel as though our relationship is beyond just friends.

That makes me terribly uncomfortable because I dont feel attracted to her...I just cant turn her down. Have you ever had something like this?

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  • peterr

    Let her eat you out, you might enjoy it.

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  • PeterPam

    I think you might be wrong about two things here... #1 not feeling attracted to her and #2 if you actually consider her as a her... I mean you yourself said that you like guys and I doubt that you actually flirt with girls; so maybe you interact with this close friend as a male rather than a female.

    Another thing "I feel as though our relationship is beyond just friends" and "That makes me terribly uncomfortable" ... with the turning down thing can't go together... you like her/him. End of story.

    P.S. He does not just have a crush. Its at least a huge effing crush. ;) Love you babe!

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