Bf wants to be able to call other people attractive

Bf gets mad that I get upset when he calls other girls cute or hot or pretty. IS this normal? I usually do idk why tho! He said that it’s annoying and should be able to call other people cute .? What do you think

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  • If we are talking about celebrities and so on, I don't see an issue. If he's talking about everyday people then yeesht. I mean, it may be innocent but it's still uncalled for.

    Obviously even in a relationship we will see attractive people but to point it out is quite shitty.

    If he knows how you feel about this and wants to continue, do it right back to him. Call attractive guys hot to him. See how he likes it.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Spot on!

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  • If the person is attractive, it is what it is. There's no reason why he has to point that out in your presence, though.

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    • So what should I tell him / say when he does

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      • You could say that it makes you feel disrespected or insecure- whatever your honest reason for being upset is.

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        • He says that he wants me to stop comparing myself to people and that’s how we will move the relationship further

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          • FARTNIGGASBELIKEOOPSISHITTED

            Is he 27 and youre 19?

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  • MangoTango

    He's normal. Give it a rest.

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  • Aethylfritha

    Youre being unreasonable. Unless hes constantly watching girls in public or exclaiming " Shes hot! Shes hot! " every few minutes, dont worry about it.

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    • Isn’t it rude to say it even once in front of ur gf? Haha

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  • fakeaccount2

    Do you still think other dudes are attractive ?
    “Cute and pretty” seems ok to me, “hot” seems a bit much to be telling you about, unless it’s like a celebrity or something

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  • dwight211

    Just fart in his face, he’ll come around!

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  • Mark92

    Though I find other girls attractive, I love my girl friend very much, she is my whole world, we are very committed to each other and would never break each other's trust. I will never engage with a relationship with anyone other than her <3...

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  • TerriAngel

    Get over it.
    guys do it.
    you can try to play reverse game.
    get mad.
    get revenge etc.
    in the end.
    hes a guy, making a statement.
    look past it.
    its like Hes saying he wishs he had a million to spare.
    drove a ferrari, and had a foot long dong.
    But, he doesnt.
    nor does he date the perfect girl he wishs he could get. ( but doesnt exist. )
    if you cant handle this insecure prick.
    move on.

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    • Uh how is he insecure

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  • curious-bunny

    Yes he should be able to, keep in mind he's just stating his opinion bit at the sane time it's not very appropriate, my bf would get upset with me when I'd say so and so is cute or whatever but that was more due to me not finding him attractive, it sounds bad but I admit it freely I'm just not attracted to him physically, but the way he is and his mental processing is just mmm to me wich far out weighs physical appearance. He doesn't get it, ohwells most can't talk freely with therecpsrtmrrs anyways

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  • AntiArchon

    Then give him a dose of his own medicine and call other guys hot in front of him,, like foreal admiring another dude., not in an obvious way that your'e just tryna make him jealous..

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    • He’d get mad bc he thinks that if he did that to a girl I’d get mad hahha

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      • AntiArchon

        then both of you just make a deal that you each can comment on other people's attractiveness:p but to an extent..no totally rubbing it in coz that's a bit disrespectful and what's the point other than to trigger jealousy or insecurity.

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        • What’s rubbing it in? How far is too far

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  • RoseIsabella

    Ya'll are probably just plain wrong for each other. Can't nobody control another person, and ain't neither of ya'll gonna change yo self for the other.

    There are plenty of fish in the sea, just throw this one back, and cast yo line again.

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