Bf threw me out

so me and my bf we just talking, and then i asked him a question about a group he’s in on fb. i’ve been seeing weird sex stuff all day on his fb while he’s been on it so i finally asked. he flipped out. accused me of going on his fb. yelled, cussed, screamed, insulted me, spit on me, and picked me up and threw me out of his apartment after threatening to beat the shit out of me. he threw me out and locked the door. with only a vacuum, my clothes bags and phone on hand. my keys, purse, shoes, and food are inside. there’s a spare key under the mat. but i’m scared to go back inside

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Comments ( 19 )
  • curious-bunny

    Call the cops say you were forcibly removed and need to collect your stuff fron the location. Someone will come and help you out

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    • IrishPotato

      I agree. This is the easiest and safest thing to do.

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  • TheManagement
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    Leave this guy already! He's stealing your life away and is terrible for you in every way. Txt him that you need your stuff back, get it (maybe send a friend to pick it up) and then never see him again. Enough already.

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    • IrishPotato

      WHAT THE FUCK YOU'RE ACTUALLY ONLINE W

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    • Dot123

      Enough is enough!

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  • SwickDinging

    Honestly just call the police. Even if it doesn't feel like they do much you need to have a record of this in case it escalates. They will also be able to advise you on getting your stuff back.

    Is there someone you can call who can go in there with you to get the stuff back? Don't go in there alone. Please. Take it from someone who has been with someone like this. You don't know what he might do if he gets angry again.

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  • Wow. When even the iin staff is getting in on it, its surely time to leave this jerk.

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    • IrishPotato

      doesn't really say much, it's one guy lol.

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  • karmasAbich

    What a fart nugget

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  • CDmale4fem

    Call local law enforcement and ask if they can do a stand by while you get your stuff. They stand by because you are scared of him and you want to leave. If someone was to spit on me I will do all I can to make sure they will know to never again. If he's being secretive and that aggressive when you ask, that's not someone you want to lay down with again. But I bet you have already told him that you love him since he threw you out. How can you love someone that treats you like that ? Get your self respect back together, and I will send You my address. You can come stay the night here.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Call the police, girl! What you need to do is to dump his sorry ass. If this is who I think it is then please for the love of God call the cops to escort you to get your stuff, then fucking leave that steaming pile of shit that you call a boyfriend!

    Leave, and go back home to your folks, girlfriend! Make a point to block his sorry, broke dick, punk-ass on your phone, and on ALL of your social media after you have retrieved all of your belongings. He ain'tnuthin, but a little biatch! Please heed my words, and the words of our fellow brothers, and sisters of the Is It Normal community, and contact law enforcement to escort you into the apartment to retrieve your belongings. DO NOT mess around with this bullshit anymore, chica!

    I know you are afraid of being alone, and that somewhere inside of yourself you believe that this bullshit with the loser heroin addict who mooches off his parents, and is too old for you is all you deserve, or that it's better than being alone, but that's a lie. Don't you believe it, not for one second! I'm old enough to be your mom, and this bastard isn't doing anything for you except wasting your time, money, energy emotion, and youth! We are all rooting for you, even the trolls, but can't nobody on here do what's got to be done for you, girl! Only YOU can do what you need to do to leave that son if a bitch, move on with your life, and start to heal!

    For the love of God, everything that is Holy, and good toilet humor all over the world take a chance, and take the first step!

    The first thing you need to do is to call the cops for help. Keep posting here, and start working on yourself. Do the right thing, and do it for yourself!

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    • IrishPotato

      That's intense.

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      • RoseIsabella

        What can I say, I'm a Scorpio. Well, I don't put a lot of stock into astrology, but my sister told me I'm an intense textbook Scorpio. I told, her I don't believe in that stuff, and she said, "it told me you would say that".

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        • IrishPotato

          I don't believe the month you're born in changes anything tbh.

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  • whoah55

    Totally messed up situation but now I'm curious what kind of porn did he have on there.

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  • TerriAngel

    Get your stuff.
    But, honestly.
    Next boyfriend, don't spy on him.
    What you did was crossing a line.
    We all value our privacy.

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    • IrishPotato

      Are you retarded? It's on his Facebook. It's the least private place in the world.

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      • TerriAngel

        Irish.
        I see your point.
        Sorry, I was bringing some of my own bad history into the discussion.
        I delt with a crazy jealous person for a little while.

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        • IrishPotato

          It's okay.

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