Bf talking to ex lying

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I have currently been with my bf for 4 years. Out of respect I called n made sure she was cool with it. It was fine she said. She is now married but constantly texts my bf at 7am 11pm 3am.....all hours of the day n night!! N the begging of the relationship she came n my house n said come to mommy to our dogs, found pics of her n my son on my camera while at work...many of things that she has done to step on my toes. After a few years I stopped liking her...n I text to tell her to back up a bit n quit calling so much. She texted me back n said that we knew who'd win the beauty contwst, that she had sex with him n my house while i was at work. Now he faceboks him n tells him to call her when he gets to a payphone n that he can't talk to her customer if he does I wont let him c his daughter!! He quit talking to her a few months ago for our family. But she is facebooking his friends talking shot......what to do. He's lies soon much I don't know what to believe. my insecurities r ruining our relationship

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  • gowila
    13 years ago

    Your insecure? It's not like you are just paranoid. Tell her to stay away.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    This is a little hard to follow, but it sounds like this girl from his past is making a lot of waves for you and does not respect you as the significant other in his life. Your boyfriend must put an end to it.

    You shouldn't have to explain this to him - but lay it out - her inappropriate behaviour & your harassed feelings.

    Tell him you are sick of looking like the bad person by having to complain. If he can't hear this and deep six this woman, for the sake of your child, get couple counseling.

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  • jesusdiedlol
    12 years ago

    Ok stop blaming the other woman. It is his fault! You know he's lying and you stick around.

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  • EGGYWHIFF
    12 years ago

    ITS HIS FAULT.
    men arnt stupid, hes prbabaly banging her
    ...tell him now, go do it ...say, this bitch hits the highway today , or i go and screw somebody else...
    ...baddabing!

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    I second gidget.

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  • jenvin55
    13 years ago

    It's not your insecurities that's ruining the relationship, it's his inappropriate behavior! Don't shield him from the consequences of his actions. What they are doing is plain wrong, but your battle is with him, not her. He's the one bringing her into your relationship by the choice he makes by not telling her to stop. Tell him either this stops or your done with his crap. If that's the way he wants to be then fine, tell him you just want no part of that. YOU DESERVE BETTER! then be prepared to end things with him. It will be hard but in the end you'll be happy you did.

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  • elkieyo
    13 years ago

    Lol knock them both on their ass

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  • psychobabble
    13 years ago

    He sounds like a douche bag!

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  • bodiewangler
    13 years ago

    What Gidget said. Tell him to either cut her out (you can't get her leave him alone, the onus is on him), or that you will leave. And be prepared to follow thru on the threat.

    It's not paranoia, that's unacceptable on his behalf if he's serious about your relationship.

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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    he shouldnt be talking to her period they need to stop or u need to leave

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  • Cherry_Uk
    13 years ago

    Sounds like a bunny boiler! If things get really bad, you could look in to a retraining order, or write her a letter explaining that you will take action if she doesn't stay away from you.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      A "bunny boiler?" Never heard of that!

      I do think you need to drag your common law husband to counseling. He is enabling her by staying in contact and allegedly had sex with her - when are you going to put him on the hook?

      If he is not willing to take steps to resolve this, then visit a lawyer. In addition to boiling that bunny - find out about your rights to things like child support.

      Nobody should live with that mistreatment, nor would you want to expose your child to this nonsense longer than necessary.

      Good luck....

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      • [Old Memory]
        13 years ago

        OK - Glenn Close - boiling the bunny - got it.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    13 years ago

    She just wont leave it alone...and she knows how uncomfortable it bmakes me, and so does he! They were friends before their relationship, so that's his excuse!! what FRIEND tells u to sneak behind ur girls back n call u at a payphone....when she know how much I can't stand her

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