Bf says for guys it’s hard not to have sex with other pll

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my bf says he’d never cheat on me. bc he knows i would end the relationship., but if i did it to him, he wouldn’t, bc he thinks that relationships are more than sex or whatever and that it’s selfish to get mad at someone for having sex other than the person their with bc for guys it’s “the reason they exist. to spread their seed” - my boyfriend always makes this argument and he knows it annoys me bc he’s trying to validate his reasoning for having that temptation or something right? he says that if a girl was teasing him in front of him he wouldn’t know what he would do bc it’s hard to say no to that. what do you guys think? is this true or is he just a sex addict

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  • Handyman
    6 years ago

    Some men are always on the look for a chance to have sex, and sometimes with who ever is available.
    But I do think some woman are the same.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Your piece of shit boyfriend is fucking with your head, and trying to brainwash you into thinking that cheating is normal, because he is indeed a cheater. He is either cheating on you, or is planning on cheating on you, chica. Don't believe a word he says, he's trying to manipulate you.

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  • keedyk
    6 years ago

    It is hard for guys not to cheat. Guys always seem to argue it's because they're supposed to "spread their seed," but the average guy is never happy when a woman gets pregnant and a lot of guys won't even take care of their own kids. Men just lack self-control when it comes to sex, that's all, and it's mainly that they have more testosterone than women that makes them so sex-crazy. It's pretty much all men, with very few exceptions, regardless of what they say (most deny it). Generally, if a guy is good-looking, popular/famous or has money, he is going to cheat because women will show interest in those men a lot and guys can rarely turn down a woman who offers sex.

    What he's lying about is that he would not leave you if you cheated. Men think women should tolerate their cheating, but they will not tolerate a woman cheating on them because they think of women as their property. Unless he is one of those weird guys who gets off on the idea of another guy having sex with his woman, he would feel offended and personally violated like someone broke into his house if you cheated with another guy.

    Edit: don't know what the minus is about, people don't like the truth, I guess, lol.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      he told me that he thinks it’s selfish to break up with someone who cheats bc it’s purely physical and it’s selfish to be like “wow my bf had sex with someone who wasn’t ME” that’s his mindset.. he would prksnly he sad and disappointed but he really wouldn’t break up with me if i did... i just don’t rly know how to feel about it

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      • keedyk
        6 years ago

        Don't need you to repeat it. The only thing he said that's true is men have a hard time not having sex with other people. Sorry if you don't like it/agree.

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