Bf said if he gives someone a peck on the lips it shouldn’t matter

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bf and i were talking and he said if someone gave me a peck on the lips as a goodbye it shouldn’t matter .... and he said he would do it in front of me too? i guess it’s not that bad the more i think of it but it’s the night before my birthday and he yelled at me to grow some confidence and how it’s pathetic that i would break up with me or at least get mad at him if as he was saying goodbye to someone, gave them a kiss on the lips... he was like “if i was seeing someone from back home blah blah blah and i didn’t that it shouldn’t matter and it’s not an emotional thing at all” he was being rude tho like yelling at me that we need to break up and that he questions why he’s with me blah blah. and it’s the day before my birthday!!!! what do you guys think? is that cheating/ bad?

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  • ShadowCat
    6 years ago

    This is one of those things that's relative to how you were brought up. My cousins have always kissed my grandma and other relatives on the mouth, and the thought of that makes my stomach turn. I NEVER would do that. To them, kissing on the lips doesn't mean much; to me, kissing on the lips is reserved for a lover. My advice is to trust your instinct which is clearly telling you that you're not ok with this (and I wouldn't be either.) He could easily just give a peck on the cheek to whoever he's saying goodbye to, in order to respect the feelings of the person who he's dating. But he's not willing to do even that is he? He doesn't sound like a nice person as it is, and personally I wouldn't want to spend my life with someone who I have to feel disrespected by every time we're saying goodbye to people he knows.
    I think you should find someone you're more on the same page with in this regard.

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  • Ellenna
    6 years ago

    Sounds like a lot of fuss about not very much if you ask me: either believe him and get over it or if you don't believe him, move on. Keep in mind that different families have different practices about physical contact & affection.

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  • Justmehere
    6 years ago

    I'd say it depends on who, and what the other person you're with says or takes it as. One holiday season, my older sister started doing it, giving me a quick, but long enough, lip kiss that didn't bother anyone else, but, about a year ago, I was dating a very protective woman, who nearly flipped out one night.

    We were at my usual sports bar, and, a milf-type woman, who was attractive and sexy, but, when she drank, all over me (and other guys), came up to us and just planted one on me during our hug. Woman I was dating was shocked, and kept saying "I can't believe her! She just kissed you, with me right here!"..

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  • DingusKhan
    6 years ago

    Depends! Is he using his pecker?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      ya

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    No, it's not normal. A peck on the cheek maybe, but a peck on the lips no way José. He's an asshole.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      he says that if he did it saying goodbye to someone quickly and not emotionally.. he called me selfish for saying it isn’t normal

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        He sounds like the selfish one to me. I wouldn't trust him.

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  • RaelianChick186
    6 years ago

    I think it's normal. But that's just me.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      why do you?

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  • Hotdogsaregross
    6 years ago

    I really can't make sense of what your post is trying to say. It hurts my eyes and brain trying to read it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      i’m asking if giving someone a peck on the kiss that is not your SO bad? like if you’re saying goodbye to them and they’re an old friend or something

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  • JellyFish123
    6 years ago

    boyfriend

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      what

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  • JellyFish123
    6 years ago

    it was probably your ex

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      what

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