Bf only wants me in a short skirt

it look like he sees you as nothing more than a sex object. If your fine with this then carry on otherwise dump him.

This post frustrates and annoys me.

Please dump him... He obviously doesn't respect you. -_____-

lol...this is retarded.

he sees you as a piece of meat.
you like being a meat?

From what you said about friends saying you are lucky to date him him must be really good looking or something. Dont go out with someone just beacuse other's are envious or they look good. He sounds like a creep with controll issues my advice is get rid of him and find someone else.

Where the hell do you live, the middle east? He doesn't have the right to make you wear what he wants you to wear. Wear what's comfortable to you. If you're going on a date, then maybe dress up like that. But seriously, don't listen to him.

You really need to end this relationship...

Wow... If it makes you feel uncomfortable and you don't like wearing skirts all the time then stop him and stop wearing them! Use some common sense here little girl and realize your parents know best in this situation. There's more guys out there then this creeper. But if your not willing to "lose" him, then you deserve everything he does to you and how bad he controls you. Pull your head out of your ass!

He sounds like a horndog.

Just to update and thank you all. I took your advice and broke up with him, i'll admit i was a little depressed at first but your right he was a jerk and i am better off on my own

he sees her as pornstar .. cut the crap and tell him how you feel about it ..

Obviously everyones input is pointless to you. So why even post when you already know the answer on what everyone is gonna say!? There's more to it then being popular. But it must be very important to you where losing your self respect is nothing, just to be "cool and popular".

You're an idiot if you need us to tell you that this is completely WRONG.

Yeah, he's a total douche. What he's doing with lifting up your skirt and showing people is disturbing and vile. And why would you ever let someone do that to you? Repeatedly even!

In case you haven't figured it out yet, battered women have the same attitude as you do. "everyone says I'm lucky..." "I don't want to lose him...". If you refuse to be a strong woman and let some douche order you around and show off your goods like a hooker for those reasons...you deserve what you get.

Your stupid for keeping this up just for your stupid school reputation. You'll realize after you graduate that it was all for nothing. I don't mean to sound rude, but you need to realize that he treats you like trash and has no respect for you. Move on, who gives a shit if you lose your popularity.

All the comments above say it all. Piece of meat. Porn. Using you. No respect.

Just tell him or leave him.

I know you all think i should dump him but i really do like him and it's nice being popular and all his friends always say hello and smile at me. I really dont know what to do and i do appreciate your help

Do nothing useless trash

Love to see girls in short skirts, they should wear them more often

You're doing a good thing. And if he's that hot keep the skirts on and keep his c*ock in your mouth often.

HA HA HA HA. Are fucking kidding me? Sometimes I just can't believe some girls.

Grow a pair of tits and tell your boyfriend to eat shit.

Are you possibly related to Dr.Cox from the tv show Scrubs?

How come I never meet stupid bitches who have no respect for themselves in real life? Some guys have all the luck

Dump him! It's not right for him to treat you that way.

I wouldn't say its normal yeah being a guy I can appreciate a girl in a skirt but I would never lift it up for all other guys to see call me selfish but my GF is mine for a reason. Not to mention my GF, Mother, and sister would probably drop my ass faster than a bad habit. He seems like a really dick. You said your uncomfortable with it so dump him and find someone who respects you as a person and not just as a sex doll. Good Luck

Ok, Sarah, at this point you have not responded to what I said a while back... And out of genuine concern for you, I am just hoping for a little update on this post. As I said, I made a profile on this website to try to help you. That was my number one motivation, my main reason. I just want confirmation that my attempt to help you was either a failure, a success, or kinda just ignored. Please, respond! just write something to indicate the situation.

Best of wishes,
TheLogicalJew

hahaha your an idiot for staying with this loser. do you like it when he exploits you? obviously if your still with him. you should give all your skirts to him one day and make him wear them... see how he feels

If this post is fake... you suck for wasting everyone's time.

If this is real - the guy is a controlling bastard. Have you ever heard of the signs of a potential abuser? One of the big ones is a guy who repeatedly disrespects you (ordering you to dress a certain way, and lifting up your skirt in public), and keeps doing it after you tell him not to. Don't be fooled by him trying to make it into a joke - he's not doing it to be funny, he's not doing it simply because he's horny, and he's not doing it because he's socially inept or doesn't understand what you want, he's doing it to bully and humiliate. A guy can be horny, but a decent guy would respect your boundaries. If he says he's sorry, he might be genuinely sorry for a while, but then he'll probably go back to doing it again. It sounds like your relationship is pretty one-sided - it's all about you pleasing him, and never about him doing anything for you. I'm assuming that this is your first relationship - my first relationship was a lot like this. I stayed with him and put up with his nonsense much longer than I should have, because I thought he was the only serious boyfriend I was likely to have. I even tried to get him back after he dumped me, even though the last 6 months of our relationship were absolutely horrible. I know it's very hard to leave a guy like that, even if he's degraded you. But it's HIS problem, not yours - you've done nothing to deserve being treated like this.

There's something that my mom told me that I wish she had told me earlier - she was talking about someone she knew who got divorced, and said that there's a point in some relationships where you have to work things out to stay together, or break up. But you can only work things out if the other person is willing. If the other person doesn't want to compromise at all, it's obviously not a healthy relationship.

You are an object to him..you sound young (school aged)and most likely you won't listen to what any of us say and have to learn your lessons the hard way as I did mine.

I will tell you fact though. At school age..a boyfriend that controlling is heading to disaster...or worse things. Abuse. Im speaking from experience. (im 32 also). I had a 'controlling boyfriend" and he forced me to do things I didnt want to, or he'd leave me...One night, when I was 16, I didnt want to have sex with him and I never thought this "boyfriend who was so great" would rape me, but he did.

I feel really sorry for you, because he is making you the center of his cruel jokes. Disrespecting YOU by #1 telling you what to wear, and #2 showing your rear to the other guys like your some sort of prize...its disgusting....

Id dump his ass.

You should be able to wear whatever you want to....you are an individual..and believe me, if he is goign to break up w/ you for not wearing a skirt...Id beat him to it and dump him,,,you never know what hot guy may be standing around waiting for you,,,and he may just love you in jeans!!!! run girl..and warn the others on the way out of that mess.

I understand that maybe you care about him, but if he will only be seen with you in a short skirt, he must be an ass

If this post is fake, I'm quite appalled. I am here to help people, not to make people laugh about some sort of theoretical situation they came up with.

Ok, I quite literally just made an account to talk about this situation. First and foremost, it is fairly normal for a guy to want to see his girlfriend in a skirt. That is pretty well how men are programed, we naturally want to see as much of a girl as we can. Bellaswan, I read your comment and the above kinda addresses that (to an extent). Individuals who agree with bella: You really must keep in mind, every single guy out there is a perv, to some extent. If there is any man out there who says he is not a perv, he is just thinking a bit too highly of himself, or isn't willing to admit such a thing. As I said, it is part of the male biological programming to assess every woman we see. Spread the genes, further the species. Guys (myself included) are, by our very nature, horny and perverted. Thats just how it is.
Now, on to the actual post. The fact that this guy pretty well demands that you wear a mini skirt is not healthy. Quite frankly, if I met this guy, I wouldn't even shake his hand; he just doesn't sound like a good guy. I can most certainly relate to him wanting you to wear a short skirt, but the practice of pretty well making you wear one is not in anyway good, and this should have been obvious in the first place. You have talked to him about it, but I don't really think the situation is going to improve, on account of the fact that he said he is going to buy you a dress to make up for it. He is just trying to win your affection back and make you forget all about it. And you said that, and I quote, "... just that I will have to wear it on that night...". This is not good. He is making you wear it. It sounds like the start of another situation, nothing more. Further more, you have no reason whatsoever to be feeling guilty. We men, and this is one of few times that I had to resist using "gentlemen", can be manipulative. I hope that I never try to manipulate a woman in the future, but that is besides the point. He can act "sweet" for a while, and when he feels that all is forgotten, he will go back to being some kind of abusive. This guy is pretty well using you, and in my opinion it is in an attempt for approval from his friends. You said it yourself! He has been showing your ass to his buddies, and I don't even want to go into the probable conversations he had with his friends. Going there would be, quite frankly, offensive. In summation, I believe nothing good can come of your relationship with this fellow. You need to end this, and quickly. If he is the aggressive type of individual, which can be fairly common among those who enjoy manipulating girls, don't end it while you two are alone. Regardless of how lucky your friends think you are, this guy is a pig. What they have to say about your luck should not influence the way you interpret this guys behavior. I am one hundred percent serious, you should end this relationship.

Agree with Aussie. 100% it's some dude jackin it in his basement.

cant anyone see that this post is fake and all they want is attention? seriously, who puts their email address on here to "chat" if they are seriously looking for help. just another loser who cant make friends in real life and has to resort to pretending to be sexy to get attention from all the boys. who really knows whether the OP is really a chick?? just imaging how many pervs have wacked off to this scenario not knowing that they were really wackin off to a fat heffer dude with coke glasses, bald and in their 50s.
im getting tired of the crap that keeps showing up on here.....

when i read that for some reason i am getting the feeling he is either going to force you to have sex(aka rape)...but you shood dump him if you are too nervous just keep on wearing pants but...if he is the agressive type then either get freinds with u so he wont hurt you thats all i can help u with

Even though we had a big row, i couldn't leave him

Can't wait to see what dress he wants to buy me, won't even tell me what it looks like, just that i will have to wear it on that night when his friends dad brings it down for me.

He needed to know how you felt. If any guy makes you feel bad, or uncomfortable you need to say something. No matter what! I'm so glad you did talk to him, hopefully things will be better.
Dont feel bad about arguing! You did the right thing.

Why am i pathetic vanillaberry???

Boyfriend = alpha male

You're pathetic.

break up with him

We had a big row today but things settled down, i couldn't leave him. He told me he's sorry for making me fill uncomfortable and has promised he wont lift my skirt up again and to make up for it he says he is going to to buy me a present. Aww he's so sweet and i feel really guilty now, may i should let him lift it up a little.
He's going bowling with his friends in a couple of weeks and wants me to go with them, told me he has seen a dress he thinks would look good on me on the internet and is going to ask his friends dad to get it for him as he doesn't have a credit card and he can bring it with him when he meets us there on the night for me to change into. I feel really bad now arguing with him today

It doesn't matter what you're friends say!!!! If he makes u uncomfortable then tell him to stop or dump him

Good for you, telling him how you feel. Please tell us how it goes. Hopefully he will understand. You sound very strong, good luck :-)

Going to explain how i feel to him this weekend

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He sounds like a jerk. You should probably dump him. You deserve to wear whatever the fuck you want.

You need to talk to him. Tell him you don't like how he does all that to you. Nobody should ever make you feel uncomfortable or make you do things you don't want to.
He must do things that are good too, since you don't want to lose him. Are your friends only seeing the good side of him though?
My first reaction was for you to dump him, but I'm not in your situation and I know that's really hard to do. I don't like how he treats you though, so please talk to him. If he doesn't change you do deserve so much better, and will get it.

No don't leave him... He sounds so dreamy!!!!

i agree w/ all the above comments. either he needs to stop being like that, or you need to break up w/ him.

You are in complete denile that your bf is a complete douche bag. You need to dump his sick preverted ass right now.

He's a Horny perv

Okay, so you're asking us to help whether or not he's ok, but you insist on defeding him. If you don't accept our answers, go away with your perverted creep you call a boyfriend. If he understands Ou don't like it, tell him, and if it's so important to him, dump him. Don't be a tool.

Thank you all for your comments, i have mentioned this to a couple of my friends, but they think i am really lucky to be going out with him and that he's only playing about, He never does it when my friends are about. Maybe i'm worrying to much, it's not as though he done anything really wrong and he has had a couple of people come from behind and thank him