Bf is obsessed with my butthole?

I started fooling around with my boyfriend about a week ago, and I've noticed that he pays a lot of attention to my butthole. He doesn't ignore my vag, but it seems like he touches me there because he knows I want it while the attention he gives my butthole is for him. When he goes down on me, he'll start in the front but seems really eager to go lower as soon as I'm into it enough(I stop him if he goes for it too soon), and then he always asks me to turn around so he can get better access. He doesn't stop fingering my vag completely but it's like he's just going through the motions while he's eagerly eating my backdoor. And then it's the same when we're having sex, no matter what position we're in he always tries to get a finger in my butt. He doesn't even seem to like missionary, I suspect it's because that's the hardest position for him to get his hand back there. He always wants me on top(especially facing away) or on all fours. And if he talks dirty while we're doing it, it's always about how good my butt looks and how tight it is on his finger...I really thinks he likes having his finger in my butt more than having his dick in my vag. To be fair, he's really respectful, he stops if I tell him to, he's asked about anal and I've told him I'm not ready and he doesn't push it, so I'm not complaining I just wasn't expecting this. But I'm not very experienced, so I didn't really have any expectations...are a lot of boys like this? Is it normal for him to be so focused on my butthole?

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  • barefoot_on_the_sand

    Don't do anal to please him. Don't do what is uncomfortable to you. A boyfriend should respect your limits.

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  • trexagireve

    He loves everything about you and he thinks that even your shit is better than him so he wants to swallow whatever your body produce so he can have some of your superior DNA inside him, he is that much crazy about you

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  • TS

    Wait.... he puts his mouth on your butt-hole?

    WTF? That's disgusting.

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    • It’s not so much that he’s putting his mouth on my butthole, more like he’s putting his tongue in my butthole.

      Is that less disgusting for you?

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      • TS

        Lol, I feel like this is a troll

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        • Lol, I thought I was just trolling a troll

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          • TS

            When trolls tangle...

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  • Alexvbhg

    Nothing to do with gay. Me personally just like how tight it looks and feels. Not much girls are into it I think but my ex would let me put a finger in her ass sometimes and tries anal once. The idea of the tight hole while gingering her vagine is so hot IMO. Just being able to fuck and finger her vag turns me on so much. But it's up to you. It's something between the two of you. Just be clear about what you want and everything will work out I think. (Also since you are a girl can you read one of my posts called "I don't know how she likes me, opinions please" ) - thanks

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  • lordofopinions

    If you don't want him fooling with your ass then tell him. If he gets more out of sticking his finger in your butt than putting his dick in your vagina I would start to consider he may be actually gay or has bi tendencies.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Maybe he's kinda gay?

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  • Resse85

    Some guys love it like me it can be more of a turn on some girls don’t like to say

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  • CDmale4fem

    It's very normal for someone with little experience to not know what to expect. So maybe make a deal with him. He can play with your ass as much as he wants but you get a 3 sum make of your choice to give your body the attention he's lacking in supplying.

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    • Sorry, I meant is his butthole obsession normal, not is it normal for me to not know what to expect lol...I fixed the wording to be more clear.

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      • CDmale4fem

        Actually many guys are attracted to the forbidden fruit,(Adam and Eve). We crave what we are told we cannot have. But I really think his obsession may be a bit more extreme than most. Try to negotiate and that way you both get what you want. If you compromise then somebody loses somewhere. But(t) hehe, remember the longer you let him do what HE wants it will be much harder to get him pointed back toward the sky. Tell him something like if he wears some of your panties and bra to bed you will let him access the back side. (I'd be curious what he says to that.) He kinda is going shopping at the store but he's not paying for the groceries. Or tell him more time on your pussy or no more blow jobs for him. Unless you don't care if he goes out and gives them. I'm kidding there.

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