Bf goes to us open without me

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The U.S. Open was last weekend and I expressed to my boyfriend a few times that I wanted to go. He said he didn’t really want to go and didn’t talk much about it. Then when I left his house on Sunday I guess he went with his friends and didn’t invite me nor tell me. I wake up on Monday and he tells me that he lost his phone at the U.S. Open. I asked Him why didn’t you invite me I really wanted to go! He kind of ignored me and then just said he went for a few hours. I stopped talking him why didn’t you invite me I really wanted to go! He kind of ignored me and then just said he went for a few hours. I stopped responding to him hoping to give across the hint that i’m upset. is this something to be upset about? there’s a pattern with him where if I want to do something he usually isnt in the mood but if his friends want to do something he’s there probably because he feels like if he didn’t hang out with his friends they would stop wanting him to come over but he knows with me I would always come back. so annoying! i’m seeing him thursday, should i express to him that this made me upset or drop it?

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  • Ummitsstillme
    4 years ago

    Of course it is messed up that he would specifically say he didn't want to go and still went. You should have gone with some friends, or alone.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      maybe he just didn’t think much about it? and it was last min? and he just wanted to see his friends?

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  • trexagireve
    4 years ago

    No you are not normal

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      how do? he went knowing i would want to go and has said he didn’t want to go when i asked. then he tells me to go home because he has homework and hours later just goes to the thing i wanted to go to with his friends without inviting me?

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago

        You should cancel your plans for Thursday with this guy, find something fun to do by yourself, or with some friends instead of him.

        You shouldn't be staying at this guy's apartment so long that he has to literally tell you to leave, and go home. That alone is way too needy, and clingy.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          he didn’t tell me to go home but on sundays is kinda when we both know i leave because i spend the weekends there. i told him, “aw i wish i could stay longer” and he says “yeah i know babe but i got homework”

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          • RoseIsabella
            4 years ago

            Okay, if that what you say, but I've heard you say in plenty your posts that he tells you to leave, and expects you to clean his messy apartment. I just don't have the energy to look up your previous posts.

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Ask him who paid for his ticket.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      it’s free

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago

        Well, if it's free you could just go on your own. Yeah, your boyfriend sounds like a stupid jerk.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          i wanted to go with him. he said he didn’t want to, and when i leave to go home after the weekend his friends probably hit him up and he says yes to them

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          • RoseIsabella
            4 years ago

            He sounds like a real jerk. This douchebag guy you're with bad for your self-esteem.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              4 years ago

              should i explain to him why it hurt my feelings or let it go?

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