Bf doesn't want sex as much as he used to

Is that bad? Just asking?? What do y'all think we've been dating for 10 months almost

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Based on 31 votes (17 yes)
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  • lilpup

    It depends on your age.

    Most men see a decrease in sexual activity in their 20's and it will slowly decrease as they get older.
    I think it's important for men to be proactive about this, since a healthy sex life is an important part of relationship.

    Teenage boys tend to always be horny. However things like stress, moral, fear, embarrassment, and emotions can greatly affect sexual activity. Masturbating often can also lead to low sexual activity. Hormonal imbalance sometimes affects people. And truthfully every man is different when it comes to their sex life. Not all men are horny everyday 7 days a week. That's a myth.

    I do think it is normal(not as fun though)for sex life to slow down after the first 5-12 months. I think this has something to do with the relationship becoming more routine and you body just isn't in a hurry to get into their pants anymore. But couples should talk about this and figure out a way to keep their sex life enjoyable for both even when things require a bit more effort to get going.

    But I hope you can figure out the issue.

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    • thanks!! ya idk man

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  • redrainbow22

    Maybe he cares more about you guys relationship :)

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    • (:

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  • Fatboy5

    Depends on his age I think. If he is in his late teens or early twienties he should still be wanting it.I'm 65 and would like it every day.

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  • Carlton03

    First there were very good answers, that’s good advice, yeah there could be many factors such as stress etc, is he going through stress from work etc?

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  • loonylightsgood

    So many factors, people's sex drive usually goes up and down as they grow. Just depends on where you are at life and what's happening to your body

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    • ya maybe

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  • redfastlad

    pop round here ill bum fuck you anytime

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  • geckopaws

    Could be he’s cheating on you. Though I think men’s libidos tend to go up and down when a relationship matures. Do you know what turns him on? If you do, and you want more sex. Do what will bring up his libido. Of course there are boundaries to this on what you’re comfortable with.

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    • uh he's deff not cheating on me.. what makes u think that?

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  • rayb12

    Put ur butt on his dik

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    • i do

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      • rayb12

        maybe learn better blow and handjon techniques for each other for now

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  • generay129

    You need to spice up the relationship. dress sexie, set up threesome dates with his friends. untill a threesome is in the works, become more flirty make him jealous,sex is the glue for relationships.
    Wake up or lose him !!!!!

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    • Carlton03

      Stupid troll answer!!! He’s the one not wanting it as much anymore, so chances of her losing him over that are super slim.

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    • we have sex like 4 times a week it's just we used to have more. ya ur stoopidd

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      • thanks!!!

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