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My bf broke up with me for 3 hours bc I got mad that a girl asked for his snap. But it was a fat girl on a video game. Idk why I got so mad. He said he couldn't deal with me doing this and that he wants to be able to talk to someone... and not feel isolated he later said he made a mistake and idk what to do.... is what he did valid ??
Petty jealousy is one of the few things I always run from. A jealous person has deep psychological scars and will cause nothing but drama in a relationship. If you're jealous, you most likely have other mental issues.
Look up Othello Syndrome. Jealous people are often prone to delusional thinking and have other pathologies.
Your boyfriend was probably right in his initial reaction to break up. He probably should stick with his gut.
The fact that you felt the need to call the person fat, that he mentioned isolation, being able to talk to others and not being able to handle it means its not a one time thing that you did this.
You should look into seeking therapy for your jealously and control issues. You may just have low self esteem or something much more troubling going on that is causing you to behave this way.
Yes, what kevinevan said. If a relationship filters and fails and is in a constant state of emotional drama, then pretty much that Drama is what is fueling the relationship then that is pretty much what the relationship will be based on. Petty jealousy, insecurities, and immaturity. Let him have his time to grow up and let him figure out what really is important to him. You do the same. Grow, mature, and remember Jealousy is a cancer that can tear lives apart or even destroy many. Watch the police video shows where the jealous ex bf won't let the ex bf move on without him. How many REALLY try to shoot and kill the ex gf. Scary.