Bf broke up w me bc he thinks i'm lying (help)

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Im sorry if this is a long story im going to try to make it short.
me and my bf have been dating for a little over a year and a half now, we broke up back in june for about a month and have been in an open relationship, (trying to work on a serious relationship) for about the past month. while we were open we were both on tinder. long story short i got caught up in something and was talking to this guy i really liked and what not and my bf didnt like me talking to him and i kept telling him i wasnt but i was lying. i lied to him about going on his phone too and really started to give him no reason to trust me. anyways, this mornig AT 4 AM he facetimes me while im sleeping and i answer and he says, "can i ask you a question", and i say, "what" and he asks me if i have a whats app. i say no and he proceeds to tell me that when he facetimed me earlier in the day i had a whats app option to call on my contact but when he called me at 4 am it was gone. he is accusing me of downloading whats app to talk to guys behind his back or what not and he is breaking up with me bc he thinks im lying to him. i get he doesnt trust me but if i really downloaded a whats app i would just tell him to save our realtionship, but this time im really telling the truth.. im done with talking to that guy off of tinder. plus, what hes saying doesnt make sense. even if i deleted an app off my phone the option would still be there? also why not ask me why i have a whats app earlier in the day? why wait until fucking 4 am? ALSO, i proved to him i didnt have one. if you previously have downloaded an app but deleted, it would have the icloud download symbol, but for me when i went on the app store to show him ive never downloaded it, it said GET. that means i havent even installed it on my phone and i fucking showed him this but he still doesnt believe me. now hes breaking up with me bc i wont admit to anything. please if you guys have any advice please let me know. im sorry this was long but im so sad and scared. i dont want to loose him but i dont know what else to do to prove to him that i dont fucking have it.
btw im the 19 year old dating the 27 year old.

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  • paramore93
    5 years ago

    If you're a liar, why should he trust anything you say? I'm going through this on the other end and I don't trust anything he says anymore. He could tell me he was going to sneeze and I wouldn't believe him.
    No trust = no relationship.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Lmao! I just read the last sentence.

    Numerous people have told you to break up already. This time probably won't be any different.

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  • angryblonde
    5 years ago

    bro why do i kind of relate. i mean i never talked to someone behind my boyfriends back but he accuses me of lying ALL the time. Also i’m 18 and he’s 28 and we’ve been together almost 2 years. so weird to hear about someone in a similar situation.

    i know it’s easier said than done (because i won’t even listen to myself) but if he will break up with you that easily with no proof, you don’t need him.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Oh, for the love of God, please just accept that your relationship with this asshole is over, and move on with hour life, girl!

    In the future don't go through anyone's phone, and don't lie to anyone. If you are dating someone, and you feel like you can't trust him, them go with your gut, and leave him.

    Please don't tell us all that you want to get back with him, or you still li e him, because we've heard it all before. What you need, girl, is to take a break from dating entirely for like a year or two. You need to concentrate on working on improving yourself, and Lord knows you probably need professional help too. It's not an insult, it's nothing to be embarrassed about, it's just reality. Become a better person, and you will attract and be attracted to better people.

    Please try to move on with your life, I wish you all the best!

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    I can't even be bothered trying to read that wall of words: haven't you heard of paragraphs?

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    If none of you want a open relationship why agree on it. Obvi he doesn’t want you messing around and you mention you don’t wanna talk to guys. Then why still do it and lie he’s obvi not gunna trust you if you lie to him. Whole situation seems immature my vote is move on from this weird childish thing going on and stay separated.

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  • LaughinSkull
    5 years ago

    Wait so he's 27 and you're 19? And you've been dating for over a year? So, you guys hooked up when he was 25 and you were 17?

    The whole situation smells bad. If you're flipping out about the relationship and you're going after older guys I suspect you've had some trauma in your past (abuse, absent dad (or dad left), etc.). Seriously consider getting help to work out those issues. As far as for this relationship, it's time to break it off unfortunately. In your teens, you really don't know when a relationship has run its course or when to say goodbye.

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  • LornaMae
    5 years ago

    The reason why the icon to call through WhatsApp showed up for him is likely to be that he's the one who has it installed, and the reason why it disappeared probably because his phone recognized that yours couldn't take that type of call because you don't actually have it. Just a (although educated) guess, though...

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    • charli.m
      5 years ago

      Don't bother. If this isn't an on going troll, they're both retarded pieces of shit.

      She can't even get her own story straight. "He thinks I'm lying" "Im lying". Dumb cunt.

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      • LornaMae
        5 years ago

        Oh! I don't recognize this one... haha!

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    "LIKE THIIISS!!! This isn't what I wanted to be. I never thought that what I said would have you running from me!"

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