Best way to come out as a bisexual to a friend (i'm female)?

You know, I can live with being in the closet but I also often want to come out so I can express how beautiful I think women are. How do I say it?

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*sends pic of celebrity crush* sweet baby jesus isn't she sexy 4
So I'm in love with that one person. So what's his name? It's a she. 22
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Comments ( 24 )
  • Unimportant

    Why not just wait until the secret reveals itself? There's no reason to hide your sexuality, but there is also no real reason to have this conversation out of the blue, is there?

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  • Avant-Garde

    Do you know what your friend's stance on the LGBT community is. If her views towards it are negative, then telling her may be a mistake.

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  • kingofcarrotflowers

    The best way to say it is the way you are most comfortable with :)

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  • RoseIsabella

    Why do you want to come out to her in particular? Do you have any alterior motives in regards to this friend of yours? Don't take it personally if she's not attracted to you and or isn't interested in hearing about your latest girl crush.

    Come out to people who will be tolerate and accepting of you first!

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  • DragonQueen

    Why are there so many of these posts. They are beginning to get redundant.

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    • PizzaKitty!

      Yeah, for real.

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      • DragonQueen

        Meow Meow Meow, I love kittens! But sorry, Im afraid of cheese. I was traumatized by it when I was just a child. By some TV program. Called the Electric Company.

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        • PizzaKitty!

          Cheeseless pizza... ewy lol. cool username btw

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  • Just force her down and unzip her pants and begin licking the unknown.

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  • kiss her cheek first (even friends do that ) . then keep kissing on down ....oh .... so i hear

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  • dom180

    The only unambiguous way is just say it.

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  • CreativeThinker

    Even though I voted for first choice but I think you don't need to say anything just invite her and have a drink together (at least a bottle) and get down to her pants thats it

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    • brainssexathlete101

      No! This is clearly a valued friendship, if the friend is straight, she will not magically have sex with the user.

      Be genuine, come on

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  • 2tfx

    Be honest, a true friend will still be there for you no matter what.

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  • st2013de

    People care less about who you're attracted to (at least here in australia in my town) so just be open and honest. If you can't openly tell people in 2014 you may as well keep hiding it.

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  • highrider

    Just go up and be like 'u know I'm bi, right?'

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  • curiousguy23

    @OP I don't know where you live but where I live being a Bisexual woman is considered hot. Now I am a Bisexual man and I can tell you we guys don't have the same treatment. So if it's similar where you live just tell your friend. Also it is considered normal for a hetero woman to say another woman is hot but not the same for hetero men. So if it's the same where you live then you really have nothing to worry about. Just do what you feel more comfortable with.

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    Well this is how most of my friends came out. They gave me a note saying "I have a big secret I want to tell you" make a huge fuss about it and just saying "Oh im gay, im bi, whatever". That or they ask "Hey can I talk to you about something" and tell me. Im generally not the type of person who cares if someone is gay though.

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  • andiforoncedonthatehumans

    Do the helicopter dick

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    • tripw7

      What is the helicopter dick?

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      • andiforoncedonthatehumans

        Its a dance where you spin your dick in a circular motion.Hence why its called helicopter dick.

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        • thetalentless

          Did you read the title? I don't have a dick.

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          • andiforoncedonthatehumans

            Ye that was supposed to be the joke but nvm...

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  • richardbturgid

    Become straight.

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