Best sex? (mens opinions please)

Learn how to give good blowjobs.
My last girlfriend sucked at it and not in the good way. I was her first she had no experience and... just learn how to give good head. Watch you tube tutorials, yes those exist for blow jobs, practice on a Popsicle, whatever, just learn how to give good head.
When you give a blowjob the guy is expecting you to put all your energy into pleasuring him, I don't know what your skill level is, but I can't tell you how disappointing a terrible blowjob is.

Basically, become your boyfriend's own personal pornstar. Do whatever he likes and tell him how awesome he is at it. Most importantly, enjoy the hell out of sex. Our comparison of girls is more about how much they enjoy what we are doing than necessarily what they can do. If you're into the sex and are horny most of the time then his ego is being stroked and he feels like he's doing something right which in turn makes you the best sex he's ever had. Get it?

I`m replying even though I´m female but I`ve been with some guys, I´m a sex-addict and most guys I´ve been with has said they wish all girls were like me so I think I can give good advices;

Guys all have different kinds of kinks, the guys I´ve been with have loved it when I`ve slowly tested my limits, asking them what they like and suggesting new things.

Blowjobs/handjobs;

You can lick/kiss/rub your lips against the tip of it, preferably with your hand around his cock or fondling his balls.
When the bellend is all moist from your saliva you can try to gently let your finger slide over it.

When you suck, you can use your tongue for extra sensation.

Lots of guys love deep-throat, practise but don´t go around believing you have to be able to DT for hours to be good at it ...

Sex; Do some work yourself, initiate position change, let him HEAR, SEE and FEEL how turned on you are and that HE is the one causing it. He wants to feel like he´s a God in bed.

Initiate sex, touch him when he´s not expecting it.When you walk by him? Gently slide your hand inside of his pants and kneel down in front of him to offer a surprise blowjob.

Some guys, not all, are secretly wondering how it would feel to get fingers or a dildo in their ass. It does wonder for their pleasure and I´m sad when I hear guys refusing to try "Because it´s gay"

And last; I have been with both men and women. Of course I compare people, i think everyone do ...but NEVER during sex. You should not feel the pressure to compete with others during sex.

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I've had sex with a few women in my young life.My advice love is to explore all and both of your dark fantasies...,dont be shy and be vocal about what you want.Cher'

Talk to him about it, and find what's an extreme turn on for him he never got to explore; it doesn't matter what other men think, because they don't have your boyfriend's dick and not all men are the same.

Be enthusiastic about sex and be wanting to try anything he wants, if you love the sex you are having and he can tell, he will think you are a great fuck.:)

As a couple of people have said, ask him, it's the easiest way to find out.

A couple of observations:

>Please keep it realistic so no threesomes, crazy bondage,
>or really weird kinky stuff. Okay thanks.

OK boom, if you were talking about me, you've just ruled yourself out of the race. This is basically the divide that most girls won't cross: most women that I've met are willing to play, have a bit of exploration, do things that are a little bit adventurous, but ultimately they stay broadly vanilla. Erotic lingerie as opposed to pornstar/hooker clothes.

I mean you should never do anything you don't want to; if you're finding yourself edging towards doing things you don't want to because you want to impress a guy, I'd suggest you might be trying to prove yourself in a way that isn't necessarily healthy. BUT, for me at least, timidity is a massive turn-off, and conventionality, and needing to stay within the bounds of what's "normal". The sexiest thing for me is women who are not afraid of their sexuality, women who, if they're turned on by a fantasy will try it. And I do think that there are a lot of people who back away from doing things they want to do.

The things you remember are the things you haven't done before or you don't do every day. And basically lots of women like a bit of mild naughtiness but it gets boring and kind of disappointing after a while, "Oh, you think that's adventurous, do you?" To really be memorable you need to break new ground. And often, the areas of extra people, tying up, fantasies and kinks are the areas other ladies have left unexplored.

And contributing your own ideas, fantasies, roleplays, costumes, experiments, adventures is massively sexy too :-)

>Happy to say I've already mastered blowjobs...

You have NEVER mastered blowjobs. There are so many different techniques. It's like saying you've mastered the violin. You haven't, not until you've played a LOT of violin and had some amazing teaching. I have had good blowjobs, and then I've had blowjobs so good I got headrushes off them. If you think you've mastered blowjobs, learn deepthroat. If you think you've mastered deepthroat, learn to do it as smoothly as Annette Schwarz - that woman is either an artist or an elite athlete or both. It's a matter of technique, it's something you can learn, I've an ex-girlfriend who trained herself with carrots over the course of a couple of months, and I've always remembered her. Whole thing. Right down, no choking or gagging, licking my balls at the same time. When you can do that you can say you've mastered blowjobs... the point being, if you really want to be the best he'll ever have, then you have to be the best you can possibly be, which means there's no finish line. You have to constantly be looking for ways to enhance your skills or freshen up the theatre of it or build the intensity or add variety. Expand your boundaries.

Sounds like a mission really. You could just focus on having sex that both of you enjoy; sounds like you're there already, that's great. Good luck.

Don't be shy. be vocal, nasty, (not disgusting) but tell himm to lick your pussy from behind and lick your asshole. do the same to him. he will be embarrassed at first. but after that it is on. Be a lady with class and show him respect in public, and fuck him like a nasty nympho slut when youre alone.

I love when my girlfriend grabs my balls while I fuck her deep as I can, and when she let's my cum on her tits and in her mouth. Let him do whatever he wants to you.

Ask him what his fantasy or etish is and then try to make it come true. Add a bit of kinkyness to your sex like eating food off of him dripping candle wax on him or playing with matches near his cock you can try costume play too

My wife was fantastic in bed but the foreplay was what turned us both on. She would kiss me and ask me if I wanted to make love to her and I said yes and she then would ask me if I would suck her pussy first which I did. After she had cum at least 6 times then we made love and it was mind blowing and her vaginal actions during sex were to die for. Simply the best but sadly no longer with me as Cancer took her three years ago.

You have to work on having good sex and always make her feel special. My married life was really good and we had a very special intimate relationship with incredible sex.

Its the opposite with me my boyfriend has only had 1 other girlfriend where I have had 7 different boyfriend from age of 13and to my shame had sex with all of them he fells inadequate but I love him like I have never loved anyone before

Anal.

you know who would have more knowledge on the subject? YOUR BOYFRIEND