Best friend dating ex

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Can't believe there is no other story on here about this.

Fell in love with a girl, and she to me apparently. She was the first and only one, it felt epic.

Due to having no experience, she broke up with me and I never really understood why, except for that I am just so inadequate. We used to talk about the deepest things. We never even kissed, but god how i wanted her to know that I would.

A few weeks later she "fell in love" with some complete arrogant a**hole and on my birthday they felt each other up in my room, while I was there, along with several other people.

They broke up after a while for some reason and it made me guiltily happy even though I had tried to convince myself I was over everything.

Time passed and I thought everything was in the past, but now my best mate and her are getting involved. When she isn't with anyone I feel fine and free and over her but as soon as she shows serious affection toward anyone I get dragged back down into the depths.
I feel I am drifting slowly away from any sense of purpose, totally lacking direction, and becoming increasingly insecure.

1. I don't know why I still feel sad when she is getting involved with other guys, I thought I had finally gotten around it but in the back of my mind i accuse myself of living in denial.

2. I don't know whether its worse for the girl whom you loved so purely to get with a complete a**hole or your best mate.

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  • dancer12
    13 years ago

    I have the same issue but it's just that I'm a girl and my ex has been dating this one girl for like 2 weeks..and I am jealous! Idk what to do.... hELP

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  • 0000Lz4
    14 years ago

    Look guy we all go through this, and it gets easier the more times it happens. Every love feels epic when you are young, but the thing is its not love that gets you through your times its maturity and commitment. And if this girl is getting involved with this many guys this quickly then shes obviously not ready for a commitment.

    And I agree with the first poster get laid and you'll quickly forget all about this one.

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  • ctbpdx
    14 years ago

    If a girl can fall in 'love' that quickly, you should be more worried. This same thing happened to me; we broke up, and about two weeks later she was dating another GIRL, who she apparently said she 'loved' as well. If they're passionate enough to believe that so quickly, just imagine how they could turn that passion into something nasty... D:

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  • bobbita
    14 years ago

    I love how you feel. It is hard for most guys to express they are actually hurt and upset. I think guys get upset if they truly loved soemone, but they arent gonna show it because of pride, especially in front of their homies. But you need to accept that thats life and move on and find another girl that is understands you better, dont give up find a good girl.

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  • JustinH
    14 years ago

    All you have to do is get in some practice apparently you have a hard time getting girls and keeping them. Luckily you can practice at home by yourself! Sit on your hand for thirty minutes and then when all the blood drains out of it you beat off. This is called the, "stranger". This will either improve your stamina or make you a really sad man it's up to you.

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  • JenniferHanks
    14 years ago

    You need to get laid. Find an older women to show you some tricks and you'll be the man around your high school.

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