Being on top!! neep advice!!

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So I've been wanting to please my boyfriend for awhile now. Usually he does all the pleasure but i want to do it for a change. Last night, he finally got me to be on top and i gave it a try. I guess i was doing it right because he was like "omg you really doing it." At the same time, I didn't feel anything as i was going and tried to go faster but still didn't feel anything. Is that bad? I didn't want to be mean but i told him it was awkward and that i don't think I'm doing it right so he got on top. Is this normal? If so, is there a better way for me too actually feel it and please him?

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  • bigtoy
    12 years ago

    It takes practice and you are still nervous about doing this - be patient and ask him to be patient too.
    Just focus on rubbing the tip of his penis with your cervix - that usually turns both on.

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  • <3BaraBara
    13 years ago

    If you have to ask you should just give up. This is something that should come naturally.

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  • Cosmicgiggle
    13 years ago

    You should find a position that entices both of you. Lots of books (that are NOT offensive that will give you ideas you never dreamed of. Check online. Give that a try

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  • anabolic19
    14 years ago

    my girl had a similar thing but when she was ontop ( sitting straight up )my penis would go too far in and it would hurt her

    when your ontop try lying forward so you two are face to face ( if you get what i mean ) it should help

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    • lifeisawesome
      14 years ago

      Good advice! Also try jently play with his balls. Jently! Putting pillow behind his back so he is leaning forward a little bit.

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  • Alwayscometogethernomatterwhat
    15 years ago

    It probably has something to do with the position you're in. When you're on top, try moving a little more to the left or right side, depending what you like more. Your boyfriend's penis isn't hitting your g-spot correctly.

    One position that will surely hit you g-spot is doggystyle. But, then again, your boyfriend will have to do the work.

    Greets and good luck.

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