Be very very soft and affectionate as a dude

78% Normal
10 Comments

I'm just curious from the ladies perspective is it a turn off if a guy is very sweet and cuddly and quite soft hearted when you're in a relationship. I'm kinda insecure about how I feel I like to naturally express intimacy because it just doesn't feel very masculine, and I'm afraid itll be off putting for a girl.

Deep down I just want to be sweet and soft and tender with a girl I'm with but it just feels very idk not strong and masculine.. ? Is it a turn off if a guy is very sensitive? Is it a turn on? Please let me know :)

Voting Results
78% Normal
Based on 18 votes (14 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 10 )
  • sweetone89
    2 years ago

    I would love a guy to love to cuddle for hours. Hold hands. Kiss. Be very romantic.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    4
    4
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      This makes me feel a lot better it's so stupid to be so in my head about this stuff. Of course I should let myself be exactly as loving as I authentically feel towards a girl.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      2
      2
  • jihugyftdstdyfkgyds
    2 years ago

    I personally think its a huge turn on if a man is very soft and affectionate

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    I think a man can be both.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • hauntedbysandwiches
    2 years ago

    Lmao this is what we want

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    Women dont know what they want. They'll tell you they want a cuddle bug then dump you for a biker or the opposite of their "type"

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • Curiouskitten444
    2 years ago

    Iz good

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • SkullsNRoses
    2 years ago

    Granted I’m not a typical example but the only one of my exes I ever still think about was the affectionate one. We didn’t belong together for many reasons but he had a very calming presence that I’ve not seen since.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    2 years ago

    Yes it is. Like wanting to talk about emotions? Ugh, shoot me. Be sensitive but dont cry and stuff all the time, write about it in a diary or something. But yeah is it normal to wanna cuddle and shit? Yeah it is what do you think, thats not softie behaviour thats being a human being.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • DADNSCAL
    2 years ago

    Let me just repeat what John F Kennedy, a notorious womanizer said, “You can’t win a win a woman by slapping her face,”. The days of ladies worshiping tough guys are over. You’re on the right track.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0