Be sick of sex?
My husband loves sex! We do it like five times a day. I'm getting sick of it. How do I tell him to chill in a "nice" way?
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My husband loves sex! We do it like five times a day. I'm getting sick of it. How do I tell him to chill in a "nice" way?
I agree that I would love it too if it were more often. We only do it 3x a day now and I think it's about time for a stunt double!
Yes married women have sex. Lol! I crave it more and more the longer we are together.
Just curious: obviously he has a lot of energy and a lot of time. Does he work/have friends....do yardwork?
dont be his sexual doormat. tell em to chill out. you dont want to ruin you body. you guys have a life time together. tell him to slow down. sounds like he has too much time on his hands as well.
Yall gota have other fun hobbies together besides just sex.. Make him visit a sex theripist if his sex-habit is on some next shit..
"Honey, let's do some thing else."
"Back off, I don't want it right now."
"Go masterbate."
"I need a vacation from sex."
"Couldn't you do this with some one else." (Don't say this one if he does. Then you got other problems.)
Five times, that's a bit much, I could see where you would be sick of it...
Being horny is good, but it sounds like he has way too much time and nothing else to do. (Unless it takes only 3 minutes every time.) He needs a hobby and friends, or a job away from home.
He's your husband! You should be able to tell him anything....
It's great that he loves having sex with you, but five times a day is waaaay excessive. No wonder you're getting sick of it.
Like I said, he's your husband. Tell him straight up that you two need to cool it a bit so it doesn't become routine and get old.
I am also fuck my wife 3/ 4 times in a day. Not making complete naked. Just lifting her dress I enter my dick in her.
Even men get sick of sex if you do it enough. Three times a day is about my limit before I start telling my wife it's time to use an "understudy" and handing her the vibrator.
Learn to say no when you don't want to. Do not "deprive" him too much because obviously he has needs and if you get out of practice its easy for a woman to forget how great it is for them too. try to every day. or at least every other day. let him know if he wants you to be into it (better sex that way) that he needs to give you time to want it again. Find things that turn you on if you have a hard time being interested. communication is everything. learn to talk to each other about everything.
Meh.. its normal, but that doesn't make it good. He's a horny powerhouse and apparently digs you.. a lot. If he's causing you pain or it gets in the way of other things in your lives, then thats bad. You have your sexual needs and he has his, try to meet half way. Have sex 2 times a day and see what happens. If he still needs it badly then YOU might want to take HIM to see a counselor. A sex fiend usually becomes one because of sexual abuse as a child, not saying this is the case here but it is possible. Others on here have said you should just tell him no and cool down on sex for a while, bad idea! Good marriages are based off of mutual love, selflessness, and GOOD COMMUNICATION. I am sure you two can sort this out.
oh wow i wish my x would do me that much!
I am a female btw. i was married. i want that much sex!i miss getting sore and its like a pain pleasure for me!
Just means you have some GOOD STUFF. Just think if it were average or even bad he would not want it. Instead of doing the typical female thing of cutting him off and causing problems. Turn the tables and go all out. Chances are if you are the aggressor and pushes him for sex 24/7 [esp when he is spent] he will start to back down.
Your married and your stil having sex? Really? Don't women cut it out when the wedding ring goes on?