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Can anyone tell me how to meet with people in the BDSM lifestyle, so I could learn from them and get into it myself.
A few years ago I started looking into it and made a fetlife account but when some picks from my college figured out the account was mine they made a point of telling half the school and embarrassing me. So I deleted the account and haven't really looked into it much since. But lately I've been thinking about it again and want to try.
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You can do one thing if u have any girlfriend now then u may tell ur interested in Bondage play then see her Reaction.
BDSM stands for Bondage Discipline Sadism and masochism. It is not easy to be in such relationship especially in SUB role.
I was in such lifestyle for three years not because of searching a dome online but due to the huge debt on me because of my over gambling habits and hyper dominant woman with whom I used to be in love.
Thus to curb my addictions of gambling and taking the benefit of huge debt over mine ( She refunded all the debts to my creditors), I got involved in such relationship offcourse as the Sub.
I am just curious, what kind of BDSM are you interested in? I myself am interested in such a relationship but have never had the courage. I am male and my fetish is to be a sub. (I am not trying to approach you, we probably live in different continents. I am just curious).
there weren't any revealing pics, there weren't even any pics of me at all, not sure how they figured out but they did.
You must have given it away somehow. The thing is you have to have a account to even see member profiles so anything they could say about you being there would apply to them ad well. Most of the time ppl in the lifestyle are more discrete. Sorry you had that experience.
Anothet trick you can use is to make your location wrong like Antarctica that way you don't come up in a city search. The best way to meet ppl is to go to events not find ppl by searching for those near you. Its not set up to be a hook up site.