Bar/pub/club: what would you do/say to your partner if...
without you?
Say you're in a heterosexual, monogamous - as far as you're aware - relationship and one goes clubbing without you (With friends/work, for example)?
Obviously answer for whichever of the two genders you're closest to, and do leave a comment if you think there's something I've not taken into account.
| Girl: It's his life and he has needs. As long as he's safe, I'm cool | 2 | |
| Boy: Her friends will keep her in check, so I'm OK with it. I think. | 2 | |
| Girl: As long as he asks my permission 1st, he can have & do whatever | 1 | |
| Boy: If my girl kisses or dances with anyone, I will not be happy | 4 | |
| Girl: He knows how far my boundaries are and I trust him completely. | 6 | |
| "Have fun, boy! Don't do anything I wouldn't do! Here's some condoms" | 0 | |
| Girl: I'd let my boy do anything that didn't involve getting naked | 1 | |
| Girl: NO YOU'RE NOT GOING OUT, YOU LOVE ME | 1 | |
| Girl: If he loved me, he wouldn't even be thinking about other girls | 1 | |
| Boy: She knows how far my boundaries are and I trust her completely. | 0 | |
| I'm boy. "K. Make sure you're back by x:xx and don't get too wasted" | 0 | |
| "Have fun, girl, but don't go too far [for my personal boundaries]" | 1 | |
| Boy: NO YOU'RE NOT GOING OUT, YOU LOVE ME | 1 | |
| Girl: I'd rather he didn't go out, but he needs friends | 1 | |
| Boy: It's her life and she has needs. As long as she's safe, I'm cool | 1 | |
| Boy: I'd let my girl do anything that didn't involve getting naked | 2 | |
| Boy: Other | 3 | |
| Boy: As long as she asks my permission 1st, she can have & do whatever | 0 | |
| I'm girl. "K. Make sure you're back by x:xx and don't get too wasted" | 0 | |
| Boy: I'd rather she didn't go out, but she needs friends | 1 | |
| Girl: If my boy kisses or dances with anyone, I will not be happy | 3 | |
| "Have fun, boy, but don't go too far [for my personal boundaries]" | 2 | |
| "Have fun, girl! Don't do anything I wouldn't do! Here's some condoms" | 3 | |
| Girl: His friends will keep him in check, so I'm OK with it. I think | 2 | |
| Girl: Other | 2 | |
| Boy: If she loved me, she wouldn't even be thinking about other guys | 2 |