Bad at sex or what?

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Okay I'm 22 years old ( a girl) and I lost my virginity at 18, since then I've slept with 5 guys, with 2 of them I've been in a relationship and the others were just sex buddies. So the problem is that when i do it with someone i really like my boyfriend or whatever i just can't do anything right i get nervous, i don't know what to do next and it's like that every time, but when it's a guy that i like just sexually i can do anything i'm not shy i know just what to do and it's all great.My question is is it normal or I'm just clumsy all the time and only fooling myself? Tnx :) ( sorry for my bad english)

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago

    Its becuase you auctully like them poeple have a habit of getting really nervous around poeple they generally like . If it is just someone your having sex with it means nothing so your relaxed becuase they are just a person .

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    Perhaps it's "performance anxiety". Men, in particular, suffer from this but I don't see any reason why women shouldn't. If someone is important to you, it means more that the sex is good. I'm sure you'll relax into it eventually.

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  • DannyKanes
    11 years ago

    Relax :) Trust me, guys won't be rating you or judging you at all. We're just happy we're having sex lol :)

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    • freakgeek
      11 years ago

      that's good to hear it's not that i'm not enjoying it i just feel selfish when i don't make my partner happy too :)

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      • DannyKanes
        11 years ago

        Oh he's happy lol :P

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