Attractive qualities?

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So my sister-in-law is 20 years old and to this day has never changed a dirty diaper. She even admitted once that, while babysitting my son, that she let him sit in a dirty diaper until we got home so that we would change him and she wouldn't have to deal with it. She is proud of the fact that my son is 2 years old and has never changed him once.

She also has zero cooking skills. She can prepare a box of Kraft Dinner and that's about it. She once called my wife to ask her how to cook rice... and she burned it.

Now, she is also very single and claims that she doesn't need to know how to do any of this stuff because she is going to "marry a rich guy".

My question to you, gentlemen, is the fact that she is dependant and can't care for herself an attractive quality because it means she relies on you to take care of her or is it a turn off because she literally has no maternal instincts or skills and can't take care of you or any children that may be in your future?

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  • Rich_Guy
    6 years ago

    I can assure you that rich people expect all family members to understand business and economics. We, the elite 1%, have a name for plebeians like her. It's " dumb bitch".

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    • robloxer69
      6 years ago

      she wont want to marry this^^^ rich guy

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      • Rich_Guy
        6 years ago

        Yes my aspiring friend. The lesson here is that privilege demands astuteness. In addition to understanding finance and markets, personal horizons and commitments are far flung. Rising to these demands requires skills of little use to the lower classes. Our values are radically different. Wealth preservation is paramount.

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  • lonewolf1253
    6 years ago

    She's lazy and expects everything to be done for her. Take cooking. Anyone with half a brain can cook. People who say they can't cook are simply to lazy to cook. She's a bum and probably always will be. About as unattractive a quality as one can get.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    It's pathetic to take pride in being useless at basic domestic tasks. Leaving aside the question of how attractive that makes her to a potential husband, how does she manage to take care of herself now? Does she live on fast-food, frozen pizza, and chilled microwave meals? If so, she better snare her rich guy fast, because her good looks aren't going to last long.

    But I suppose it's more likely her mommy is still waiting on her hand and foot.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Yes she still lives at home and expects her parents to do everything for her.

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      • Ellenna
        6 years ago

        She can expect as much as she likes, but if in fact they are doing everything for her there's the source of the problem

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Massive turn off. I'm not one of those males who believe the woman must do all the housework herself and it's her sole responsibility, but I find that lack of skill and interest very unattractive. I am also training my cooking skills and I consider everyone should do it. That kind of thinking is very toxic and leads to disaster. It pushes you into a world where you believe everyone must do everything for you, but the reality is very different. Both partners must take the responsibilities in their own hands. Even if they fail, they can continue, but rejecting it entirely by dreaming about nonsense like that is very dangerous. By the way, rich people generally won't want women like that, especially not for marriage. Being rich means they're smart and they managed to get many people to work for them to make them rich, so working extra for a spoiled princess won't work with them. So many women out there are trying this old trick, and all of them are so disappointed that they 're just used and abandoned. You want to use a rich guy, so he'll use you, too. And the fact that he's rich and you're not, makes him likely to be smarter than you, so he'll pull the trick before you do. Advice for her: stop doing what you're doing. You'll end up having all that negative attitude working against you.

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    • Boojum
      6 years ago

      I think guys should be able to do at least basic cookery, and not just for survival, health, and cost reasons. My experience is that women like men who know what they're doing in the kitchen, so a good grasp of fundamental skills, knowing how to read a recipe, and having a few vaguely impressive, more complicated dishes down pat is a very good idea. Nobody likes to feel that cooking and domestic drudgery is solely their job in a relationship.

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      • [Old Memory]
        6 years ago

        Good point, indeed.

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  • CDmale4fem
    6 years ago

    Well sure, in society these days the younger generation seems to want everything for nothing. They want everything handed to them. They don't care, don't want to care, don't care to care. Along the same lines, how many 12-17 yr olds have an Iphone. They throw a fit till they get what they want. In the same respect your sister in law wants to get everything handed to her without working for it. Probably not even sucking dick for things. I would even bet she plays the "oh, I can't do that, can you help me" with the pouty face and the baby talk to entice a guy to think that "she's cute". If she can't boil water without burning , she's gonna make one hell of a gf or wife. NOT for ME. I would pass. I will do things myself before I have to take an adult female by the hand and show her how to wipe a baby's butt.

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    Sounds like you have a little crush on her

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    • edwininthematrix
      6 years ago

      it's only natural if this young girl reminds him of a younger and more spoiled version of his wife.

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    • bob7
      6 years ago

      sounds like you are smart

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  • Ummitsme
    6 years ago

    She better be hot af and great in bed otherwise she has nothing to offer it sounds like.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    She sounds delusional.

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