Attractive, intelligent, 18 female, never had a romantic relationship

I'm a 18 years old female and I've never had a boyfriend before. I actually modeled in Singapore last summer and am currently affiliated with a modeling agency, with a height of 5 feet 8 1/2 inches, and 34, 26, 36 measurements. I only model because I love new experiences! Hiking, sky-diving, researching, travelling, playing new video games, learning jiu-jitsu, black belt in tae-kwon-do, investing in stocks, really, I try anything I could and anything else is welcomed. I currently receive a full-ride in a state university and a member of their honors program, double-majoring in biochemistry (BS), business administration (BA) and teaching. Thanks to AP Exams, I've finished all my core requirements and is now on a 4 years track to finish 3 bachelor degrees. That is to say, I'm on top of my game academically. I am also listed as an independent. My family has a very close relationship and that is precisely why I refuse to use my parent's money for my own education. They've worked so hard to raise me and they deserve to use that money to travel, dine at exquisite restaurants, or do anything they want to do for their pleasures. I can support myself well.

My wardrobe is very elegant, and I treat people with respect (picking up the trash when I see it, opening the door for others, paying for my own meal on a date, smiling at people when our eyes meet) and very punctual. I am also an investor with ambitious goals (I receive a 512% roi on bit coins and penny stocks), particularly, developing a project that augment the availability of payment plans and electronic security systems in third-world countries in hope that more treatments become available to those who are not able to make a full payment prior to the treatment. I'm working with a professor on that. Also, I have large circles of friends, voted as the most natural comedian in my class, volunteered more than 1000 hours during my 4 high school years, and very good at socializing as well as partying. Because of personal circumstances, I'm a pillar of my family and thus developed a strong sense of self-identity, confidence, and experience (how to win a lawsuits, protesting against the appraisal district, refinancing, auto-incident loop holes, bills, credit scores, etc) over time. I'm outgoing and will go to extreme lengths for my family, friends, and beloveds.

Enough about me, now the central question: why is it that guys are not interested in me? I'm not a clingy person, so if I’m in a relationship, it's going to be, well, I'm going to do my things, he will do his own things, and during our free time, we can do our thing. I don't like to be a burden or ask for much of anyone. I can take care of myself, and I don't demand, want, or expect my boyfriend to pay for my meals, buy me expensive stuffs, or anything of the like. I just want to try romance, to experience the feelings that songs and movies portray so well, to find a soulmate that I can be intimate with and share new experiences with. I've never had a first kiss, holding hands, or anything remotely romantic in 18 years of my life. My life is summarized above, is there something I should change? I apologize for the lengthy details, but if you're reading up to this point, thank you so much for your time. Feel free to be honest, your opinions will be greatly appreciated.

P.S. I attached a picture of how I would normally dress and one of my modeling picture.

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  • disthing

    Plenty of people reach 18 without having had a romantic relationship, or even a kiss, as evidenced by the frequency of posts on this site about exactly that.

    Your Personality Resumé is lovely and everything, but we can't possibly ordain why you're single on this basis alone. We'd really have to know you.

    Here are some possibilities:
    1) You may not seem approachable: If you're the kind of girl who is waiting for some guy to make the first move, maybe your demeanour or way of expressing yourself seems 'unwelcoming', intimidating even. You may want to consider how you come across to potential love interests, but also be willing to make the first move.

    2) You may be too unavailable: Schedule-wise, it sounds like your time is taken up by a lot of activity, especially work-related. That might mean opportunities to meet guys and form relationships are limited, because there just isn't the time. If you can spare some time to spend on relaxed, social activities you might find the effort pays off.

    3) You may be unlucky: I mean, this is pretty much guaranteed to be a reason anyway; the opportunity or the right guy just hasn't turned up yet.

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    • mountain-man82

      This.

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  • Mersaphe

    There's no need to list all of your qualifications and/or accomplishments. If you're a model chances are that you are attractive. And you're clearly very intelligent and an over-achiever. Honestly the way you described yourself, it sounds like most guys would be intimidated by you more than anything.

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  • TheJester

    Well, I would suggest ice cream and a movie.

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  • Do you initiate? As in, do you make it obvious to guys you like them in "that" way or do you give small hints most would not catch or not even that?

    If you want a change to happen you're gonna have to do the work for it, which I am sure you will be able to do due to how you explain your life.

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  • Ivebeenaminerforbitcoins

    Out of the all the guys I've interacted with, I decided to accept this one guy's dinner invitation because we seem to have a lot in common. It's going to be my first date :") Do guys have any expectations on first dates? Im a total novice, and most of my clothes are dresses and stuffs i got from the White House, black market store. If you know that brand, is that too fancy? Also, i want to pay for my meal, would that offend him?

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  • TheJester

    So basically, you just wanted to write a big fat post about all your accomplishments and about how cool you are? Haha seriously, that was a fucking novel.

    Anyway, I find it ridiculous that you think all those accomplishments of yours are going to automatically find you a guy, and that its strange that you have yet to meet mr right just because you're aparantly more successful than any other 18 year old I've ever heard of.

    Falling inlove has little to do with ones accomplishments, you know. I wasn't a fantastic student in highschool, and I dropped out a year and a half before I was meant to graduate. I began an apprenticeship which went up in flames and was employed twice after that, and have not been employed for a very long time. I find I am way more comfortable being a home maker. I have also been with the absolute love of my life for a year and could not be happier.

    I'm living proof that love just happens. It has nothing to do with how smart, accomplished, or well off you are.

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    • Ivebeenaminerforbitcoins

      I apologize for the length. Your comment is really eye opening, I've been too occupied with myself and too eager to realize that. Thanks! I believe i just met a compatible guy a few days ago, any advice on what i should do for my first date? You're really helpful!(:

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  • kelili

    Long post. Barely read it. You're still young, you'll eventually meet someone.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Having a relationship is not the end all begin all. I think you should wait to pursue one until you finish your studies.

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

    I rarely hit on 10s I figure they already get enough D. I usually stick to the 7-8 area. But if your single *Wink wink*...

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    • derpyderp

      You often hear that 10s don't get hit on as much as you'd imagine.
      Everyone's scared of rejection & it takes some big balls to try & rock the best looking girl in the room. Might be true?

      On the other hand there's a lot of cocky cunts around so I dunno...

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  • ihateallmyclothes

    Maybe they're intimidated by you?

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