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I feel myself getting drawn to guys as well as girls. I look up to guys, I idolize them, I dream about them, I want to be like them. Is this normal?
Im going to be honest, id fuck a guy but i wouldnt date a guy, id fuck a girl and i would date a girl, is that weird?
It's quite normal. Sometimes I find myself attracted to other females, which probably makes me bi. There's probably thousands of others just like you, so there's nothing to worry about. You're perfectly normal. =o)
well in todays day its normal to be gay whatever. im also one of the few straight guys you'll hear say bi-sexual men aren't gay whatever.
but i think the underlying problem is that ur not gay or bi-sexual, maybe bi-curious. i think maybe you want a big brother figure in your life? so when you feel drawn to men to look up to and idolize just do it as if they're your big bro.
you are insecure about who you are you want to be like perfect men who are strong and good looking and get all the girls so you become idolized but your not gay dont think that you are its a phase its a brain thing.
what you can do is this improve your life style go to a gym if you think you look bad try to improve your looks do a activity like learn guitar or karate, meet good looking women DATE GOOD LOOKING WOMEN all is possible dont let no one tell you that its not i have seen ogres with hot babes before.
improve your life and you find this to be a phase good luck bro
man it's normal to idolize guys even ur guy. U wanting to be like them is normal.
That's fine.
As Moonlit said.
I am physically attracted to females as well as males, though I do tend to only idolize males. It may be a respect thing, I'm not sure.
Being sexually attracted, depending on how old you are, and how long this has been, depends. Are you curious?
You could be a little insecure about your own image so you want to be like other guys. However if you mean "drawn to guys" as in you are sexually attracted to them, it's a fair guess that you're bi...and yes, being bi is normal.
Bro, it's a phase. I'm currently going through the same thing; constantly putting myself down and feeling like a complete loser. You could be attracted to them physically and that is not to say you are gay, but you feel inadequate and not comfortable in your own skin or pleased with your whole body. Maybe you want brolic arms, a broad chest, a six-pack or powerful glutes. Personally, I have looked at other guys and its because I feel I am not hot enough. Maybe you feel you are not appealing or macho. Go to the gym and work the parts of your body that you want to look better. Love yourself bro! Have the attitude that you look so good you could fuck yourself and I guarantee you you will attract women with that mindset. You're not gay. The devil is playing tricks on you and he's a fucking liar! You are at a stage where you are realizing that you have not come into your manhood and that's ok. Keep your head up. Right now you don't need to stress about women, but rather take the time out to improve yourself as a young man. Be easy. Watch porn. There's plenty of porn stars who fuck their girl while their friend fucks theirs in the same room. Maybe you want another man to show you how it's done due to lack of sexual experience.
There nothing wrong with being a logstuffer lots of peeople take it in the butt.I mean look at prison theres plenty of homo hank panky in there.Your fine try not to drop the soap.
Hi!! I think ur perfectly normal, ur probably a sensitive guy and sometimes sensitivity can be confused as being only a feminine trait. Not so. I think you are a loving man with great potential and you just need a 'big brother ' to guide you into the path of life. Just be yourself and try to be confident. Be patient, too, THINGS WILL WORK OUT. I send my brotherly love & I'm straight.
its funny how most of the commenter thought you meant that you wanted men sexually. I hear you on the idolizing other men. Its like the body builder who had a muscular dude poster on his wall. It helps you to improve yourself. Thats normal, in fact, its great. There are a lot of men (myself included) who want to improve their own image. Now, if you did have a sexual attraction to men, thats cool too.
If you want to be like them it is more or less normal. If you want to give them a head, that is not so.