Attached/clingy bf?

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So lately Ive been deep into thought about this..is it normal that my bf is reeaally clingy..for instance he always exaggerates on how he cant live without me and also within the first couple days he had already said that he loves me and he always talks about getting married and our future together. Also, whenever we fight he always gets so emotional and he threatens to kill himself whenever I suggest that we break up and once he even told me he wanted me to die and when I told him I had cried because I got scared, he started laughing saying it was a joke..but that's not funny..Anyways..I wanted to find out if that's normal..?

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Uhm when a guy gets psycho to the point of threatening to kill themselves that's not cute or sensitive in a good way. That's pathetic.

    Women do like it when a guy can love her, but this guy sounds like a pathetic desperate loser who is afraid to be alone. Women like us don't put up with that crap. If you guys wouldn't either then why would we? That guy needs to do some serious self work before he settles down with anyone.

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  • BlueAlice
    13 years ago

    NOT normal. He sounds psychotic and may well be abusive.

    Get rid of him before he does you even more harm than he currently is.

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  • Potassium
    13 years ago

    There is honestly nothing about this that is normal.

    Get out now. I've been in an abusive relationship before, and I learned the hard way that it only gets worse. /:

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ugh dont you just love when girls are always like oh ffs men only want one thing and then when guys say the complete oposite and say they love them etc they bitch about it i mean ffs fuck off you want sensative u get it now you dont want it but as soon as it goes away ul bitch about how ur bf aint sensative enough man woman are the most needy bitches alive im tellin ya :|

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    oh and why is that because im not agreeing that all men are basterds? em no sorry doesnt work like that so because i tell you how much woman bitch im a twat? sorry facts are girls are mostly the ones who complain about the things they want and get its a fact this story shows that but let me guess according to you its only "men" that are the twats woman are perfect and do no wrong
    fucking retards your pride in your gender makes you think your perfect when in reality men are the ones who have made most of the inventions today and the things women create run on electricity....oh look at that a MAN found electricity
    yeah i pretty much put the fuck you up to your female pride

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Sounds like a pathetic loser. I can see being really attached to the person you are with but threatening to kill yourself is just pathetic. Tell him to get it over with and kill himself.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    ^doubtful.

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  • ComeFlyWithMe
    13 years ago

    Not normal! Like everyone else said, get rid of him and be careful!

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Lol actually I have the perfect man and I don't bitch in the slightest bit. So I'd keep your stereotypical comments to yourself little man. Not all women are like you said. Sorry the women you pick are dumb air headed psychos. Maybe there is something wrong with you. Ever think of that?

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      aha no i dont give those types of girls any attention so yeah "little girl". and hmm my stereotypical views? well sheesh i could take that statement seriously if i only seen one story like this the facts are most woman want something bitch about it then get it then bitch about it some more. and yes there is stuff up with me there is with everyone but thinking i pick dumb air headed psychos isnt like me atall

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    em actualy serene woman are the gender that bitch and cry most to there partners so dont give us that seriously you want the fucking imposible to just pop in front of you and even if you get everything u want u bitch about it. its why u dont see many woman bosses today

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You should never joke about killing ur gf I was cling when I first started goin out with girls an it sucks cuz u dont kno wat ur skin wrong til she's over u but yea tell him y ur leavin so he knows wat to work on for his next gf then dump him

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  • kricket
    13 years ago

    If you think it's hard dealing with him now, think what it
    S going to be like in 3 years.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Dude I shat a brick just readin that . . .BREAK UP WID HIM OF COURSE.

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