At what age is it normal to lose your virginity

At what age do think u is normal to lose Your virginity at

12 or younger 50
14 81
16 210
18 196
20 73
22 or older 64
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  • I'll edit what jalal said so it makes a modicum of sense.

    There's no time for losing it except for when you feel you are ready to lose it.

    But to expand further on that, most people wait until they are in a steady relationship and are mature enough to deal with the emotional and other consequences of having sex. And remember to always use a condom or some form of protection.

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    • thank you lol

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  • FocoUS

    I lost it at 19 and that option isn't there.

    Honestly if I lost in high school I would've been the school slut. 19 was a good age. I could enjoy my youth without it taking over.

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    • Nogoodusernames

      Nice to know theres still some sensible and responsible people on this earth. In my town there is a 6th grader who is pregnent and that goes to prove how little kids are losing theyre virginty. I think people should lose it at 17-18 if not later

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    • i agree

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      • RomeoDeMontague

        I don't really like this poll. You just excluded everyone over 22 who has not had sex. There is a lot of posts asking if its normal to be a virgin pass there early 20s and you just told them they are all freaks.

        People should not be pressured into having sex when they are not ready. As well as that some people want to wait till they are with a partner they know will commit to them aka marriage. Not everyone should be forced to have sex before that age just because you believe its abnormal. That or when they are in a stable long lasting relationship they feel is going somewhere.

        So we cant answer this poll. Since its based on your own narrow view of when people SHOULD have sex. Since when did you become the person to dictate when everyone has it? As well as this sex is not just something you do. It has many possible unintended consequences that need to be taken into consideration.

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  • dappled

    Normal is a tricky word. Acceptable? Or the observed average? My friend is a teacher and she says the kids (aged 11-16) are sex-mad. They are desperate for it and she thinks at least half lose it while they are thirteen or younger.

    But I live in a country with a spectacularly high rate of teenage pregnancy and I live in quite a deprived bit of it. I don't think this is the picture in, say, New Zealand.

    Like MissSorel says, it varies according to the person. I lost mine a little too soon and I think I should have waited until 18 or 19.

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    • ComTlancy

      What are you trying to say about New Zelanders? That they bang sheep?

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    • ipee

      OKAY THE FIRST TIME I HEARD SOME ONE TALK ABOUT THIER VIRGININY I WAS IN SEVENT GRADE (12) AND THEY WERE TRYING TO RATE GIRLS AND IF THEY WERE VIRGINS ( MINE WAS 9 OUT OF TEN ) AND THEY GUESSED NO ( I STILL AM A VIRGIN AT THAT POINT )

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  • bryson_willis

    18+

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  • 18+

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  • 9veri4

    I lost mine at 15, and now im almost 18. i was wreckless when i was at the age, and i deeply regret it now. i wish i would have waited for my now current boyfriend. he was a virgin when we dated and i took his when he was 16. i feel if i had waited until i met him, the moment would have been so much more special. i wouldn't even have minded waiting til i was married, if it meant losing it to him.

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    • Sean021021

      wow shut up, till you get married, lol it's easy to say, I went shopping today and "TALK" was still cheap, so hehehe

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      • 9veri4

        What does that even mean?

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        • Sean021021

          Lil wayne's song(SHE WILL)

          I mean talk is cheap, its hard to stay virgin ;)

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  • burningforyou0

    18 or 19 is average nowadays.

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  • theartist89

    I lost mine when I was 18, almost 19. I don't regret it, although I don't really tell anyone how I lost it because it was kind of...unconventional.

    I think 18+ seems to be a good time to lose it. Most that I know who lost it in high school seem to regret it down the road versus those who lost it in college.

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  • i lost my virginity at the age of 14 , at first i was happy , i felt awesome . but now when i grew older i actually regret that i slept with someone i didnt really care about

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  • amunet

    the first time i had sex with a boy (even though it was the size of a cheese puff) was when i was 8 and the first time i sexually messed around with a girl was when i was 7 so thats whats normal to me but i think its about 13-18 when most people start having sex

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    • just_cats

      thats way too young

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    • Nogoodusernames

      Hello amunet, you my freind ARE FUCKING CRAZY!!! YOU HAD SEX WITH A BOY WHEN YOU WERE 8 YEARS OLD?? WHEN I WAS 8 I DIDNT KNOW WHAT SEX WAS!! Well, if u will excuse me im going to bang my head on a wall and think about how fucked up humanity is. If you would like to join me just let me know and i will show you how to properly hate humanity.
      Goodbye

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      • amunet

        Hello Nogoodusernames, when I was 8 I started having sex because it was whats normal to me. I willingly had sex for the first time when I was 8, with a 12yr old boy but my father had taught me about sex unwillingly when I was a lot younger. I hope you hurt your head and knocked some sense into yourself not everything's as black and white as you think, my friend!!!

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  • LemonCheese123

    Your question isn't a very accurate sample, as you're missing the odd number.. even if you just put:
    ~ 13-14
    ~ 15-16
    ~ 17-18 etc etc...

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  • gins2

    I'm 18 and virgin. Plan to lose mine 20+ when I'll already be at college, live at my own place, have my life figured out better and have more time to committ and enjoy a relationship a 100% :)

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    • Ozzy

      Gl with thatt

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  • ThousandPoundsOfGanja

    Ahhh life, you spend nine months of it trying to get out the pussy and the rest of it trying to get back in.

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    • Ozzy

      Lmao ♥

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  • TheShirtLifter

    I would like to say my virginity is something of the past but... What's losing your virginity to a gay guy? I'm 20 and I've never had sex with a female. Yes had three encounters with the same sex but...does that count as losing my virginity??? ...I also get aroused by the littles Misses

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  • braintrip

    whenever you want.

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  • milkymum

    i was 12 when i lost my virginity and been laying on my back ever since, wasnt that nice the first few times tho!!

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  • tugchug

    At 12, I was 180 pound farm boy. didn't hurt me to have my first sex at12.

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    • milkymum

      who did you loose it with?

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      • tugchug

        It was with a horse ranchers daughter, she was 17

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        • milkymum

          cool nice one and she enjoyed it to!

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  • 17

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  • skybourne

    i lost it at 16 but most of our school lost it at a bout 13/14/15 so i got called frigid hehe not til ur ready i say!

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  • Kiddles9

    Well a normal age is probably from 16-20 but a good age to lose you virginity is when your ready.

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  • Sean021021

    I thought its embaresing but people lost theirs 20's or more,,, I feel really confidence, but I dont fuck a lot tho, no $ no game yall, lol

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  • SOADslave

    It's not age, its the level of maturity. And this depends on the person, some people think there mature, but some know. It depends on you.

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  • iheartbrady

    i am a virgin and always will be i no it sounds crazy but i dont plan on getting married or having sex unless that is if i meet my most desired man Tom Brady which will probably never happen but if it does then i will be ready... if i wasnt like this i would have lost it at age 14 to an 18 year old neighbor. and for the record yes i am a white homosexual male

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  • Taggerung396

    4/10 guys lost their virginity at sixteen at my public school, myself included

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  • niniozo

    i know this sounds stupid, but only have it when there's at least small part of you who is ready to deal with pregnancy, because that's always a possibility! and make sure you wont regret it.

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  • Andyen

    19, three days before my birthday. you didn't have an option so i didn't vote.

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    • tbh i didnt want to put to many options , though i forgot the option "other" :/

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      • Andyen

        ahh no worries. Could be something like 12to14, 15to17, 18to20, 21+, and other... just saying for future age options.

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  • joybird

    My first boyfriend turned out to be an alcoholic whose wife committed suicide - think I'd a lucky escape!

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  • Female_Educator

    This is a question about what is Normal, i.e. what the "Norm" is, not what it is legally, or should be morally. The sad fact is that for many women this is a choice imposed on them, not usually by force, but by the easy seduction of young girls by adult men. They are very skilled at appealing to a girls needs and fears at that age, and they seem to be especially excited by the act of deflowering a child. The shame attached to this act keeps most young girls silent until long after the fact. When women are adults, and talk frankly between themselves, a truer picture emerges. In my own case I was 11 years old and he was a friend of my father's who watched me grow up and groomed me, as men do, for the act. I know now from personal experience that he had repeated this pattern with other girls at the gradeschool. This was a long time ago and he has since died, and the truth is that many women experience this introduction to coitus without being scarred for life; however each of us has a special awareness of what many men crave, and are extremely vigilant when we see our own daughters approached by men in our lives. It is something no reasonable person wants, but to deny that it exists is just hiding your head in the sand.

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  • jalal

    There is no time for losing its up to you when you mistake thats all.

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  • soft789

    I has losed my virginity, as I was 9 years old. It was in the forest and it was soooo nice and sexy.

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