Asked a guy out, he said no, then still goes out with me?

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I asked this guy out in late April of this year because I thought he liked me and I thought he was cute. He said no because he wasn't ready at this point in time. So a few weeks later we start hanging out, and everything we have done since then he has paid for... Even though he said no lol. Going to the movies? He pays. Going to a restaurant? He pays. Doing anything else? He pays. I've tried to pay for myself but he won't let me lol. We get along really well too. So is he just like "testing me out" or some weird shit? thanks.

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    That is weird. I bet he likes you but maybe he has another gf so he can't technically be in a relationship with you even though he likes you. That or he just wants to be friends but his parents taught him serious respect for women. Hmmm.... Innocent or guilty?

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  • An+on
    7 years ago

    He simply didn't have the time or desire to hang out a while ago. Now he does

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  • :)BABYDOLL:)
    12 years ago

    idk. But I went through the same thing to in highschool (14 years ago!) HAHA! I asked out this really hot guy and he said NO so I asked one of his friends instead and he said YES. That night the really hot guy that turned me down came to my room window and passed me a red rose with a poem he wrote! WTF! I told him I asked out someone else! haha...

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  • :)BABYDOLL:)
    12 years ago

    IDK. But I went through the same thing in highschool (14 years ago!) haha...I asked him out and he said NO so I asked one of his friends that same day his friend said yes

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    May just be a keeper, if you two learn to communicate a little better, work on that!

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  • americanhoney
    12 years ago

    Why the fuck are you asking us? Ask him, dolt.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    He's the guy. He's supposed to pay.

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