Asian guys...

Is it weird that I just love Asian guys? I'm a white girl. Like, really white. I have blonde hair, green eyes, an almost perfect hourglass shape, and I love Asian guys. I love their eyes. :3 I just think that they are so cool, but everyone tells me that I could never go out with one. And they say it doesn't help that I'm learning Japanese to become a translator. Especially if he isn't Japanese. And it isn't helping that my family makes fun of, what they call, my "eye fetish" whenever we get together. -_-
Should I just give up my major in international business and Japanese, in favor for a more suitable career, and any hope of being considered normal?
Any comments, or help? Thank you!

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Comments ( 28 )
  • Rae1990

    Kate Goslin.

    Who doesn't love asians??

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  • ilikapplezz

    i'm indian & i luv asian guys. so, it's normal. u should stick with ur career choice, as long as u havn't just picked that cuz you lik asians.

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  • taylort

    I am white and have always worked in Asian restaurants and my live-in boyfriend is Korean. :) I'm really attracted to Asian guys as well. I totally think you should learn Japanese and do international business!! My sister lives there and teaches English and LOVES it, I don't think she'll ever live anywhere else.

    Btw, I'm the last person anyone would expect would date an Asian ( stereotypically speaking I guess). People always get shocked when they find out, even Asians. Lol. Just enjoy their culture and they way they treat their women. It's a cool to learn about and fun to immerse yourself in another culture.

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  • Ryuhei

    in black and i LOVE asian guys expecally the japanese guys

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  • PeaceDuckReturns

    I, too, am blonde, white, green eyed, and have a touch of the yellow fever. But who can blame us for loving Asians? They're just so adorable! Haha...

    I think that you should follow your heart and do what you want to do.

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  • bewmbox

    I'm an Asian guy with chocolate brown eyes. Wanna date?

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  • littleblacksheep

    I'm ALSO blonde HOHO... I think asian guys are hot ... my bf is from Bejing and he's perfect... I luff him muchly... Do what you want in life. don't listen to others I thought I would never get to date him because I only really saw male - white guys and asian girl couples but trust me it happens the other way around... as long as your not overly obsessed ^-^' slightly guilty of that... but do not quit the course... There is no point in doing something your not passionate about ... I plan to study an oriental degree at uni.. good luck ... don't give up!

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  • India_Jonah

    I love Asian men- have for years, kpop gives you the fever

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  • Dualmax

    U are so normal because im asian and i am crazy about white and hispanic , i wish there are more like u in my town

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  • pppppppppppppppggggggggggggggg

    I'm blonde n im obsessed with asian guys O.o most of my friends lyk asians too. they're ADORABLE ^^
    course u should stick with your career choice, long as u havent jst picked that coz you lyk asians??

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  • Kikila

    No, I think that you should do what YOU want. If it is International Business in Japan, then do it.

    Nevermind what they say, just reply with an "That's your opinion".

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  • zed

    You sure you do have that "perfect hourglass shape"? who says that about themselves. Dang

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    • jorgaynigguh

      lmao i know right. white people..

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  • psychostoria

    It's normal (I know i'm a bit late) But I'm a White female, and i'm attracted to Asian males.

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  • vietnamesefranceguy

    Hello to all white and blond girls. I am vietnamese guy living south of France. I am looking for a blond white girl
    for a serious relationship. If any interested, contact me.

    Iam 175m.
    and sportif.

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  • Prettyasian

    Omg! Girl, every asian man secretly dreams about hanging out with white chicks. I am an asian girl. I know about them everything:)

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  • disthing

    It's a preference that I've encountered before. Just like some white girls are most attracted to black guys, or some white guys are most attracted to asian girls.

    The important thing is not to allow preconceptions to entirely shape your judgement of someone before you get to know them. Make sure you're not just going for an asian guy because of what they represent to you - stereotypes like that they are geeky, unthreatening, clever, are like boys in popular J Pop and K Pop bands, like anime, are polite gentlemen, like video games etc. You'll just set yourself up for disappointment if you make presumptions like this.

    If it is purely an aesthetic thing, there's no harm, you can't choose what you find physically attractive :)

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  • jorgaynigguh

    I LOVE ASIANS I WANT TO FUCK THEM ALL

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  • i'm not asian and i hadn't ever had any relationship with any asian girl but i like them so much!!!i wish i could find one sometime...

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  • Thats fine. My fiance is white as I am but my ex was an asian/black hybrid and I often miss her.

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  • sydneythekidd

    Umm, being blond doesn't make you super white..
    I really don't get where hair color comes into play here.
    Neither does describing your so-called 'good' figure. That makes you sound insecure, sorry.

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    • andrewfleming

      Well chicks dont usually go for asian guys. If some random chick posts on the internet talking about how much she likes asian guys, people would probably assume its because shes ugly, so she put that she has a good figure. At least thats what I thought when I read it.

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  • nothing2

    is that you A? oh i hate you. it was just one and i was wrecked and confused.

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  • PureKorean

    Lol this was a funny one. I'm an adopted Korean from South Korea in the U.S. but yes. I think it is normal to like someone in a different ethnic group. I personally like white girls and asian girls (I'm more leaning towards the white girls just because they usually have better features :P) but yeah this is normal.

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  • housecat

    I'm an asian guy and I wouldn't mind dating a while girl for once...just throwing that out there ;)

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  • ven067

    I'm asian and i know what you're talking about liking someone with a different race and culture.

    My family thinks that i'll grow up to be someone that makes millions of dollors running some uptight company and marry a traditional asian woman...but I don't want that at all
    I want to become a psychiatrist and marry anyone!
    none of my friends like white girls except me though lol =P

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  • Chris23

    i agree with the person above ^^^
    you should do what you want to do not what anyone tells you to. no one can tell you how to feel towards a person. just stick with what you're doing as long as its what YOU want.

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  • girlie-girl

    WOW. I have been with a few handsome asian men, but I really prefer men with larger penis's. The asian men I have been with are way too controlling. To each his/her own.

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