As soon as my crush likes me back, i get over him

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This has happened to me quite a few times now. I like a boy. I go crazy and my best friend and I figure out how I can get him to like me back. I flirt in order to get him to like me. He starts liking me back, and then suddenly he's as appealing as chopped liver. Then, when he keeps on trying to talk to me and get my attention, I get annoyed, give curt replies, and probably hurt his feelings with my sudden change of attitude. During the entire process, I truly think I like him and that once he likes me back, I'll be the happiest girl ever. Is this normal?

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  • ~L~
    13 years ago

    Women with their damn mind games.....

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  • Comm0nSense
    13 years ago

    means you're a total bltch, really
    does.

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  • xZe39a47lg
    12 years ago

    Vagina McGina yep

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    12 years ago

    Your obviously just in it for the chase... Don't worry you'll grow out of that

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  • xxmojoxx
    12 years ago

    my 'friend' does this and i hate her. so just stop.

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  • happylemur
    12 years ago

    No... You're never gonna find a boyfriend if you keep doing that! My friend does this too though -_-

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  • RainbowSheep
    13 years ago

    Normal, but terrible to do. If he's just a crush, the real fun/attraction is in the challenge. We've all been there, it's a thrill, but try winning him over a little more slowly. If you get to know him better, even as a friend, first you'll know how compatible you really are. Once you find someone you can really love you won't get over him so fast, and the challenge of getting him to like you back is that much more exciting because it's meaningful.

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  • heeraklee
    13 years ago

    get a life punk

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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    we all want what we cant have and when we know we can have it its not as much fun anymore

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Same here everryyytime

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Fast ass.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Omg you sound similar to me. I think you lose interest because you have won the chase, meaning you have found a crush, gotton excited, flirted with him, and then once he liked you back, it was boring because the excitement of the chase was over, so then you move on to find someone else

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    • sam94
      13 years ago

      I agree. But if you really do like the boy and not just want the challenge of getting him to like you, your feelings will stay the same when he likes you back.
      Just wait for someone who you really like and not someone to just try to "get"

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  • girrrl
    13 years ago

    That's totally normal.

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  • paradoxinsoxs
    13 years ago

    That's not normal!!-- that's EVIL! Ahhhhhhhh (lightning craves and thunder roars dramatically behind me)

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  • SugarPlumb
    13 years ago

    Ooook so I am pretty sure most people are like this for some period of time as they grow up, and hopefully they eventually grow out of it. Not quite sure when I thought of the idea but I decided to avoid this problem I would act as if guys already liked me. I would trick my own brain into not being affected by jealousy, not to see others girls he would pay attention to (meaning I would make it a goal to be a true friend to them), and being quite satisfied weather they were around or not. Did the trick. the thrill of the hunt died and I am free to pursue the one who I truly want in my life and let it go at the same time:) Good luck, hope that made sense.

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