Arouse-rx is there another explanation?

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My boyfriend asked me to clean his car for him and I did. He had a jacket in the backseat which had a bunch on stuff in it, so I took the things out to wash his jacket for him too. I found 2 bottles of this stuff called Arousal-RX. Let's just say we haven't had sex in a while and I'm wondering if there's another explanation? Are there medicinal properties in this stuff?? Has anyone heard of this stuff before?? I may be niave for even asking, but I am really heart broken and don't want to believe it.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    well google says you add drops of this stuff to your aftershave and women want sex with you. the fact that he is tired and doent want sex from you may mean it really works for him. or it means he is tired and doesnt want sex from you. its a sad world when i guy is too tired to even fuck when he gets off work. you are worried about what ? that his dick wont work or he is cheating . spit it out.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Of course I'm wondering if he's cheating isnt that the obvious for reaching out and asking for another explanation from someone who might have experience or knowledge of this stuff. I don't want to get worked up and draw conclusions when there may be a logical explanation of this stuff. If a man is cheating he's going to lie so asking him himself doesn't really do me much good now does it.

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      • McBean
        6 years ago

        There is a logical explanation. New job - good first impression - female coworkers may have a slight positive response to pheromones (unless they smoke). The bullshit on the product label is exactly that - bullshit. In actuality, male pheromones repel other men. If he is working with more men than women, tell him to wash the stuff off and only wear it to bed with you on the weekend. Sounds like your guy needs your advice as a social consultant.

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  • CDmale4fem
    6 years ago

    But it may not be much for good news either. I'm just saying keep and open mind, the package says it all, he was wanting something somewhere at sometime. But most of all, I would say listen to your female intuition. That's a powerful tool. IF YOU DO SUSPECT CHEATING, there are to many females that get treated like crap because "they love him". If that's the case, get a good heavy box and find your self respect and put it in the box so you can find it whenever. Just don't let yourself get played.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Thanks, you are always so helpful. I left it out on the counter and this morning he took it to work. I didn't bring it up last night, I wasn't ready to face the music I guess. I know it wasn't meant for me, I've had some time to think about it. When he first started his new job I had a bad gut feeling and this is when he was denying me, never home. Before he got this job, I paid for everything while he was finishing classes for his degree and he wouldn't have been able to buy this stuff.

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      • nikkiclaire
        6 years ago

        I still don't think it means he has or plans to cheat necessarily. Guys try stuff like this all the time to see if it works. I really think you should talk to him about it.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          You're probably right but wouldn't he just lie? I'd rather find out sooner than later in life. Why wouldn't he try something with me then? I would love for that to be the case, I'm so sad, but how can it be?

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          • nikkiclaire
            6 years ago

            Ask questions it's hard to lie about. Like simply, what's that stuff for? You will be able to tell by his answer/body language if he is guilty or not. Unless he is a total sociopath player.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              6 years ago

              I think I will do just that and if I know he's lying I will pretend not to catch it and then plan my exit. I know that sounds stupid but he kinda turns into a monster when he gets mad.

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      • CDmale4fem
        6 years ago

        So, if you found it in bathroom medicine cabinet, what would you think ? It's not so much where you found it, just the fact that you found it within your living situation. And whatever you do DON'T FALL FOR THE "Oh, I'm holding it for somebody at work" lame ass excuse. Just don't let yourself get played and made a fool of just because he might want to "be a guy" and feel it's ok to go fuck around. Even if it's in the past, if you let it slide and forgive him, there is no consequences for his actions. Chances are at some point he will do it again if you have a big fight or mild fight.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          Ya cheating is not in my vocabulary and I will not tolerate it. I'm in quite the pickle now because of this and need my exit to me smooth, otherwise I will likely lose everything I own. We moved a few months ago and his mom let us store our stuff in her basement until we could come back for it and she lives 24hrs away now. She's a snoopy drunk and sold a bunch of his stuff on him when he was younger and I don't doubt she would do that to mine too. If it was just stuff I wouldn't care, but it's all things I hold very dear to me that's sentimental. This sucks

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          • CDmale4fem
            6 years ago

            Yea, it's almost like you and your stuff are held hostage. But the bottom line and don't lose sight of the big picture. The cheaters picture. Did you happen to mention ages ? I just curious. But my thoughts on age difference, it takes us men so much longer to mature, I think men and women should be men 10 yrs older than women. That way you more mature women can catch up to us not so mature men. Lol. Do you think the bf would throw a fit If you do decide to jump ship ?

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              6 years ago

              I'm 31 and he's 30, he's the first person I've ever dated that was younger than me and for that very reason lol. Ya he would definitely throw a fit if I tell him in advance I'm leaving. This won't be easy that's for sure.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    The advertising for Arouse-RX says it will, "Arouse and attract women with the primal power of human sex pheromones."

    There's no scientific evidence to support that claim, and if some men say it does work, it will be the placebo effect or just random chance at work.

    In any case, that's irrelevant, since the important point is the evidence suggesting that your boyfriend wants to attract women for sex. You say you were interested in sex, but gave up after too much rejection. So either he's trying to make you interested in having sex again, or he's trying to make another woman (or women) interested.

    Only you know enough about him, your relationship, and the general situation to be able to make a good guess which of those is true.

    This particular brand of snake oil isn't cheap, so whatever the explanation, it must be important to him.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Is it for his dick or pheromones? Since you haven't had sex for a while maybe he is trying to get oyu interested. He obviously isn't hiding it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      He hasn't used his car in a while, not since he was at his old job because he has a company truck now. His old job required alot of traveling and he was never really home. There is no problem getting me going otherwise that would have been my first thought. He would say he was stressed and tired from work so I just gave up on our sex life. I don't know what it is. All it really says is for arousal and attracting woman??

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      • nikkiclaire
        6 years ago

        Googled it. It's pheromones. Maybe ask him whats going on.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          Thanks nikkiclaire 😔

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          • nikkiclaire
            6 years ago

            It's not nescessarily bad news hun.

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