Arousal by stroking women’s egos

Most of us like comforting our partners when they’re in emotional distress, I myself included. But i’ve also dated women that are so self-loathing that no matter what i say, nothing will boost their self-esteem. I find this very unattractive, I find myself more attracted to confident women. I like boosting their ego by talking about how their looks or their confidence, intelligence, etc. etc. the kicker also being I find cocky women sexy. I know it’s a toxic trait, but I just can’t help it, it’s so hot. Just seeing if any guys/girls can relate...