Are you mainly attracted to a confident man

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I am not that confident and just wondering.

A man needs to be confident to be attractive, period 23
He needs at least a little confidence 32
I'd rather a man who is shy 17
Doesn't matter either way 23
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  • Smartasscookie
    12 years ago

    Best is a bit of both, not shy enough to be too introverted, not confident enough to seem cocky

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    • januarycurse
      8 years ago

      +1

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    • KokoroComplex
      12 years ago

      Introverted doesn't mean shy though... but yeah, I agree.

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    • SMILEifyourstupid
      12 years ago

      Exactly what smartasscookie said

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  • someperson123
    12 years ago

    from a man's perspective, i find the girls that stress that they want a confident man have no confidence or personality themselves. Anyone else think that when people make that a point to have a confident partner it could be because they are vapid and need someone to take the lead?

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    Confident men were attractive when i was young and stupid now they're just annoying as hell!

    I mean they need enough confidence to believe in themselves, and trust their own judgement of course.

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  • Wuggums47
    10 years ago

    I love confidence, and hate cockiness. I know there's a fine line between the two, but it's easy to tell when some ones crossed it.

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  • Mebeskye
    10 years ago

    I go for the funny guy and they tend to be a mix of both

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  • UliNalaMansae
    12 years ago

    it's basic alpha male behaviour man!
    Before looks women prefer alpha male behaviour which would ensure the survival of her and her children! look it up dude im serious!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      And yet you'd think we've evolved a little beyond that.

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      • UliNalaMansae
        12 years ago

        nah, we didn't cuz them cocky douche bags would've been having kids! lol, but seriously, it's onee of the many reasons why women love bad boys or something like that, women don't know what they're attracted to even if they say they do, cuz when they say they love a nice intelligent man and fall for the typical bad boy it frustrates men, (its not always like this i realize) its true alpha male behaviour is a major factor i found out.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    It takes a confident man to even approach me. I don't know why ;o) But they don't need to be loud or arrogant. I'm married to a quietly confident man, thank goodness coz two of us couldn't compete to talk at the same time.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    As long as he doesn't act like a little bitch when I crack a joke at his expense

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  • InsertBlankHere
    12 years ago

    No one ever goes for the realistic types.

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